So this was interesting: I just got back from couples therapy. (No, ReallyNotTina and I aren’t having problems; we’re being preemptive. Catch those red flags before they turn into real problems!) Our psychologist wanted to talk about our sexy-time recreation, and since we do Being a DIK together, that came up.
That's interesting. How to bring a sense of play to it? I have heard pieces of this here and there, like trading roles, trading clothes, she begs for it, and you are all nope, not right now. She runs through the house screeching no, no; you chase her growling yes, yes. Until she allows herself to be caught and you smother her with sloppy kisses. or something. I never really thought about it until now. Make it fun. So there you have it, porn video games are therapy if you can enjoy them together. Whatever works.
There are also the mandatory talks before marriage, the money talk, the religion talk, the politics talk. As appropriate, but always the money talk. Evan if you are rich, then it becomes the inheritance talk maybe.
Y’all know he’s implied more than once that there’s something substantive to the Dr. in his nom de porn.
He said he is very highly educated in his recent talk. That does suggest to me that he is a phd doctor of something. Maybe not psychology. More likely something to do with programming would be my bet, he even offers advice to people who think they might want to be programmers in that talk. Graphical artist, programmer, writer talents are already an unlikely combination in one person. Add psych to that?
It made me think of that trick Jill pulled at the beginning of her date with the MC—“I think that we should have our date now and you leave all those feelings you feel at the moment in this spot. When we’re done, you can come back here and get them if you feel that you need them.” That’s such a therapist thing to say. (Technique actually works though.)
So he did get an influence from somewhere. The odd ball therapist in Burk's therapy session comes to mind.
