Sure, all those things will matter, eg. higher or lower RP might affect the degree that a particular LIs affinity
can shift. Everything I'm suggesting assumes DPC is to some extent punishing metagaming. A couple of posts ago I posited a 5 point scale for where the LIs start and where they might end up; now I would like to posit a 7 point scale for us as players, 1 being massive Dik, 7 being massive Chick. I don't a tiny number of the people in this thread would, if they were making choices for the MC based on their own values, end up 1s or 7s. A larger number would end up as 2s or 6s but the vast majority would be 3s, 4s and 5s (I reckon I'd be a 4 or 5)
Trying to act outside of your actual preferences will see you end up with the worst girl for
YOU, the player of the game whereas, for most of us, we'll get the person who best fits who we are as people (and be fuming about it
)