From your words, it turns out that in kindergarten, while all the children were playing in the sandbox, you read novels at the age of 6-7 years and did not put yourself in the place of the main character? Until your first literature lesson at school, you didn’t understand these novels. Maybe you were unique then there would be an article in the newspapers about you. ). I was also born in the Union in the sixties.P.S. I always found all this NTR Holly War amazing up to the point when I realized some people associate themselves with MCs. Which blew my mind. I never ever did that even when I was little kid reading all those novels. Which I did like most Soviet kids before I went to school. I never associated myself with MCs, I always observed.
As for porn it is ultimately "NTR" anyway ether way you see it. Whatever story is, you sit with the cock in your hand (in an empty room, hopefully) while someone else does the girl, not you.