Well in opposition to my previous complaints, I decided that since I hadn't quite done everything that the game had to offer, I would give it another chance. So I put another three hours into the game and found that the game isn't quite as bad as I initially thought in terms of grind. No mistake, there is still an ungodly amount of grinding to be done, but it isn't as bad as it seems once you unlock the first skills. There is a major snowball effect going for this game. Here's what I've found so far, and keep in mind I'm no expert at this game and there are plenty of things that I don't understand.
The beginning grind is rough. All that you can really do is flirt with goblins or wash laundry, both for negligible amounts of craft XP. At the same time, you need at least 500 coins (450 if you can pass speech checks) and 100 craft XP to unlock a skill. I went with mining, of which was useless until I had another 100 craft XP and another 450 coins to unlock the iron mining sub-skill.
Unlocking iron mining then gave me three iron veins to mine inside the goblin mine, which give you (from what I've seen) between 9-15 craft XP each. Add that on top of the three laundry options which give between 1-7 craft XP. So now that you have extra skills that you can use, you get even more XP, to unlock skills, which gives you even MORE XP. So there is a snowball and it gets easier after that first skill comes into play.
But now let's talk about combat...*sigh*...IT'S BAD. It's unbalanced, it's punishing, and it's just NOT fun. In any RPG ever, everybody knows that rats and slimes are the weakest of the weak and a good source of early game combat experience, but no. Not in this game. Now it might be different if you picked anything besides the bard class, as I did, but simple rats and enough to beat not just me, but my pet as well, and if it looks like I maybe have a chance of actually winning, then the rats just run away...slimes, on the other hand, the other 'easy' enemy. Don't even try. Slimes in this game, for a bard anyway, might as well be Queen Onyxia.
There is a quest in the game to get honey from hornets (was pretty sure honey was a bee thing, but whatever) and I thought 'might as well, can't kill anything else'. So I went out to hunt a hornet. Turns out, they have an attack that hits you five times. Almost a one-hit kill, and there's not much you can do about it because the skill that gives you more VP, only gives you a single point into it, apparently.
So my conclusion is this: The skills aren't actually as bad as I thought, though buying skillbooks is stupidly expensive and you have to buy some skills that anybody would know how to do from birth. But combat is far too difficult, especially with how inaccessible weapons and armor are. So this isn't a game that you casually play, and if you do plan on playing then make sure you have a lot of time set aside for it.