I'm not completely sure because i'm still drunk but something is wrong with tasks. To make the video Alex has to wear makeup. But I'm referring to the basement room. This is definitely a later stage of the game and conversation with Barbara about the room is about the space for webcam shows. I don't know how thats possible if you don't have the video done yet.
for the basement room, it's automatic after getting the key from the bum, and can continue to be upgraded until Alex needs the webcam, at which point he has to talk to Barbara.
But I can't continue because Alex hasn't filmed himself yet.
I tried repeating quickly, until the previous task (Alex found Barbara using a horse dick dildo) which required 5 NC, and I immediately used the mod to raise the NC to 9, but still no option appeared, even after waiting after several days.