Takanao

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So is Ellie supposed to be sympathetic or something? Because as far as tragic backstories go being upset that Daddy stopped molesting you as a child is, uh, unique.
One of the multitude of really depressing things about being a child molestation victim, is that it takes time for them to realize what happened to them was a very bad thing, despite their abusers assurances that what happened is a "totally natural and normal" way of expressing affection.
 
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SmirgL14

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You know this game is still good, but i think i'll drop out after this build version.

For me it just became too much of a downer to really enjoy it at this point.
I know, that it always wanted to be realistic and different, but it become too much for me right now.

You know when people say modern Spongebob is just Squidward torture porn?
yeah for me it's a bit like "Alex torture porn".
"what can we throw at Alex today to make her feel like shit?"

Also the "assholeification" of the entire non Family line of side characters is a bit on the nose at this point.
It feels like, "of course you have to fuck you family, cause everyone else is an asshole" at this point.

I'm not criticizing or demanding change from the dev, at all. The story is still good. It's their Story and they should tell it how they want, period!
But I'm also not going to continue something I don't really enjoy at this point.

Good luck to the dev and have fun you all :)
 

ChildofIshtar

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So is Ellie supposed to be sympathetic or something? Because as far as tragic backstories go being upset that Daddy stopped molesting you as a child is, uh, unique.
Others have stated the fact that childhood abuse victims tend to be gaslit into not seeing the issue here.

However, for me what it highlights is the failure of their mother to do anything to take care of Ellie's needs. In no way is Ellie's behavior justified, but the fact that their mother knew about her abuse, and the only thing she did to address it was to stop it from happening again, is damning. So what we have is a person who was quite literally spoiled rotten by her father so that he could build the trust necessary to abuse her and keep her quiet about it, who suddenly wasn't being spoiled anymore, and all she can see is a similar spoiling going on for Alex, who is getting attention while she isn't, and so she, a child running on emotional logic, began to resent Alex for seeminglly taking away her attention.

Ellie is tragic, and I do pity her. However, she's 24, and she hasn't done anything to improve herself as an adult. So I still blame her. She's responsible for her actions, even though I understand that she's not responsible for the environment that led her to them.
 

ChildofIshtar

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I'm struggling with the MC's appearance, specifically the enormous jaw, am i missing something, she's been on puberty blockers and estradiol so she ought to have a very feminine bone structure shouldn't she? Everything about her screams afab, except the jaw, even on a buff guy it would be a pretty overstated jaw so i'm just confused by it, her twin has the kind of jaw i'd expect her to have so what was the logic/reasoning behind giving her this one when designing her character model? :unsure:

If this comes across as bigoted i apologise, i'm not trying to be.
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This is the biggest problem with all y'alls phenological pseudoscience bullshit with trans people.

You keep acting like there's no variation in human beings.

Both of the twins have larger jaws than is typical.
 

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Dude, i'm freely and willingly playing a game with a trans main character, i've got no issue with trans people, i am not put off by consuming media with trans characters, i brought up my issue and solicited feedback, i want to understand, i want to understand the reasoning behind the design decision, i want to understand why she has an atypical jaw, i am unfamiliar with whoever that woman is you posted and if i am simply ignorant of some women having large square jaws that fact hardly makes me asshole, i've never seen a woman with a jaw like that, i thought it was an exclusively male feature and given the MC never went through male/testosterone puberty, i was confused and sought education on the matter.

I hate asking questions about trans people because i always get my head bitten off just for fucking asking, i try to preface with where i am coming from so a person who knows more than me can reshape my understanding without having to make assumptions but jerks like you take it as me posturing and dog whistling a bigoted stance and immediately go on the offensive and make out like i'm some dick just trying to disparage trans folk, you're the worst kind of person for these sorts of questions because you don't want to educate, you want to play the victimised martyr dying for the cause no matter what, clueless to the fact you do more harm to the cause than help it. Ignorance isn't bigotry and attacking those who solicit education is just about the dumbest thing you can do if you give even half a shit about furthering trans acceptance.
 

ChildofIshtar

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Dude, i'm freely and willingly playing a game with a trans main character, i've got no issue with trans people, i am not put off by consuming media with trans characters, i brought up my issue and solicited feedback, i want to understand, i want to understand the reasoning behind the design decision, i want to understand why she has an atypical jaw, i am unfamiliar with whoever that woman is you posted and if i am simply ignorant of some women having large square jaws that fact hardly makes me asshole, i've never seen a woman with a jaw like that, i thought it was an exclusively male feature and given the MC never went through male/testosterone puberty, i was confused and sought education on the matter.

I hate asking questions about trans people because i always get my head bitten off just for fucking asking, i try to preface with where i am coming from so a person who knows more than me can reshape my understanding without having to make assumptions but jerks like you take it as me posturing and dog whistling a bigoted stance and immediately go on the offensive and make out like i'm some dick just trying to disparage trans folk, you're the worst kind of person for these sorts of questions because you don't want to educate, you want to play the victimised martyr dying for the cause no matter what, clueless to the fact you do more harm to the cause than help it. Ignorance isn't bigotry and attacking those who solicit education is just about the dumbest thing you can do if you give even half a shit about furthering trans acceptance.

I'm very surprised you've never heard of olivia wilde... she was one of the hottest people in tv and film throughout the 2010s. Which is why I used her as the example. She was pretty much universally accepted as gorgeous. And yet, a decade later, everyone and their dog believes that they have the ability to spot a trans person by a feature that she, a cis woman, was considered gorgeous for.

You read more into my comment than was intended. Yes, I am frustrated as hell, that the bullshit the bigots are peddling is so powerful, that your base assumption is that a girl can't have a bigger jaw naturally, it must be the result of male puberty. But that's literally not how biology works. I called it phrenology, because that's what it is... it's the bigots inventing fake skull science to justify their beliefs.

So yeah, I didn't get down on my knees and give you a blowjob for doing the bare minimum of not wanting to kill me for merely existing. I did get frustrated with your ignorance. And you are responsible for that ignorance. You see... trans people aren't obligated to teach you. They didn't get taught. They had to seek out knowledge for themselves. And you cry like a bitch when one gets frustrated that you're just saying the bigoted thing like it's the most obvious thing in the world. 10 years ago, it wasn't so obvious.
 

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I'm very surprised you've never heard of olivia wilde... she was one of the hottest people in tv and film throughout the 2010s. Which is why I used her as the example. She was pretty much universally accepted as gorgeous. And yet, a decade later, everyone and their dog believes that they have the ability to spot a trans person by a feature that she, a cis woman, was considered gorgeous for.

You read more into my comment than was intended. Yes, I am frustrated as hell, that the bullshit the bigots are peddling is so powerful, that your base assumption is that a girl can't have a bigger jaw naturally, it must be the result of male puberty. But that's literally not how biology works. I called it phrenology, because that's what it is... it's the bigots inventing fake skull science to justify their beliefs.

So yeah, I didn't get down on my knees and give you a blowjob for doing the bare minimum of not wanting to kill me for merely existing. I did get frustrated with your ignorance. And you are responsible for that ignorance. You see... trans people aren't obligated to teach you. They didn't get taught. They had to seek out knowledge for themselves. And you cry like a bitch when one gets frustrated that you're just saying the bigoted thing like it's the most obvious thing in the world. 10 years ago, it wasn't so obvious.
So you're trans? I seem to have missed that in your previous posts.
 
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ChildofIshtar

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So you're trans? I seem to have missed that in your previous posts.
Definitely wasn't hiding it.

Bare minimum? Dude, i have nothing against trans people, nothing at all, i'm not against them existing, i'm not against being friends with them, i'm not against dating them,
Yeah... that's the bare minimum... treating us like you would anyone else.

i'm pansexual...
This doesn't actually enter into it unless they're nonbinary, but sure.


You say i cried like a bitch and yeah, good point, you did hurt me, i feel attacked and stupid and ashamed for saying something offensive and i'm going to be 10 times more reluctant to ask any question about trans people or trans issues in the future if i don't just avoid the subject like the plague. You want a medal for putting me in my place, you're welcome to it.

I'll be deleting this comment too and then i'm done so feel free to take your time and shit on me even more in your reply.
You're not a victim. Stop acting like one. No one is trying to take your rights away. No one is going on the news saying that you should be killed. No one is creating false narratives about how people like you are responsible for every major school shooting. No one is trying to tell you that you're not allowed to exist. No one is encouraging you to kill yourself. No one is telling "dads who carry" to go looking for you in women's restroom. No one is walking into your appartment, killing you and the other people you live with, and then having the cops let the murderer walk, and then no one even pays attention to your deaths, because some vtuber cries that a few people were mean to her for playing the wizard game.

Yeah, right now, trans folk have a short fuse. We're just trying to live our lives, but the baseline ignorance about us helps the people who want to do us harm. And rather than take what I said and try to better yourself. You're playing the victim.
 

Alley_Cat

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Definitely wasn't hiding it.
I think because I've been staying out of a lot of the discussion about general trans issues (not sure if it's OT or not) in this thread I missed it. No biggie, probably my fault.

Personally, if Snax was open to general trans issues being discussed on the Discord server (even if it needs a separate channel for potentially heated topics), that might be a better place for you peeps to vent. Less mod interference - I'm really finding that this forum is a good place just to find out about games and find the Disc servers

EDIT:
If you actually just want to vent, I do have a personal server for which you can vent on my rules, not the mods of this forum. As a minority, I am always curious for other peeps perspectives. PM me if you want an invite.
 
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AVNSnax

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Hey! If you haven't joined our Discord yet, please consider a visit! There are a couple of polls that we'd like to get feedback on, to help tailor the presentation of the remainder of the VN. Thanks!

The fine print: they won't affect the story at all, but may influence how the story is presented visually...

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88Michele88

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Where did you saw Alex looking for sexual partners in this games? She is so sexually repressed that she refused the strong advances Zoey made on her and she only dated Brad because Chris setup the whole thing.
Alex refused Zoey on both choise, after she got almost took adventage at Alex erection. Either way Alex got angry regecting her. It would be gret if ther was third choise that make say: "Not like this. I'm not rady"
But in both case she got assalted. If I was Alex, neigther I would do that. When that "almost rape" from Zoey is acceptable in real life on man? Equality, woman want more equality when the equality in sexul assalt and rape over man they laugh "He is man he can handel that".
I would love to see some choise tha make Zoey prove be really sorry.
 
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Don't know what happened to the original invite, but here it is again:
I think that discord invite links expire after a certain length of time and/or number of folks that utilize the invite. IDK for sure, just my best guess.

Adventure ever on dear friend, Phat;)(y)
 
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