To be honest, that sounds more like being lazy than anything. If you for example has a character in one update being shy and not wanting to be near a man, but in the next you have the same character eating dicks in a park and your only explanation is, that some things happened off screen that makes her act that way, is a very weak excuse to make the plot you want to move. The speed and easyness in the things that happens in the beta could happen too in the "alpha" path (making some girls developing feelings off screen or think about their real feelings off screen would reduce the time needed with the main girls for example), at least that way the complaints would reduce.
Besides, don't the people in the beta path want to see things? Like seeing others take your loved ones, fucking them when they know you are watching, seeing things where you can do nothing because you are a pathetic beta that can't do anything to them, things like that (at least that's what I think they want to see, not sure because it's not a kink I like). Feeling emotions is the way to go for the beta scenes I think, if you don't watch them, how can anyone feel anything?
But again you just answered to a part of what he wrote, so, it seems you kind of ignore most points people make and you only answer to those you have already and answer ready that you think it's good. Again maybe I'm wrong, but when you devs post a reply saying you won't answer to criticism and then you go and answer to just a part of one of them, it's seems distasteful/unfortunate. But well, seeing the huge difference between paths, then I shouldn't be surprise with the difference in answers that you give.