YEAH! this is the idea!!! I'm giving players an absurdly fucked up option, e.g, fuck a girl and pee inside of her and it is VERY graphical and this happens easily more than once. But if you don't like said option you don't need to click it!!! The main complaint I get is from male 'ntr' scenes. But you can only see those scenes if you ALLOW it so I get kinda confused on why people complain about this. Here on f95 I never faced a problem like this since the community is pretty supportive and understanding but on places like itch.io it is always the main thing 'too much of this tag'. Like.... c'mon man lolI get the impression that the way the game is setup it's very friendly towards "Switches". People who get off both on the thought of sometimes being dominated and sometimes being the one who's doing the dominating. From what I've come across, most games with Dom/Sub content just lean heavily into only one or the other. And in this game people who do just want to exclusively be one or the other can still do so, since so much content is optional.
One of the thoughts I have when entertaining the idea of making my own game one day, is that I know it would be one of those games similar to this one where there's only a handful a kinks that aren't included. But I think in those cases, making as much optional as you're willing to is important and a good call. Because some people like variety, but a lot of other have very specific tastes. And the more kinks there are, the higher and higher the chances of someone encountering at least one that they personally don't like (but ultimately, I think then it just breaks down to the sentiment of "Don't like it? Then just don't click on it.") And ideally the dev lays out very clearly upfront about what is and what isn't avoidable, etc. (which you've already done),
Someone with very specific tastes may play a game like this and find only a limited amount of content that they enjoy. But for us deviants who have a plethora of different kinks and fetishes, it's like being a kid in a candy store!
There are some tags that I made due to that as you said, I played several games and never saw some more kinkier stuff or idk. Let's see how this plays out, I'm honestly kinda satisfied with this version, I wish I had time to do more but let's save some for 0.3. I'll write a changelog soon and explain what this is all about.