Honestly, had I known Sin was in the hospital with the drugs, surgery, ect... I'd have totally postponed all of this a couple of weeks or even a month or whatever until he is back home back on his feet and feeling better. The thing is he never dropped me a message saying. "I'm gonna be gone for a week or two because I need to get some surgery." He chose to keep me out of the loop, and not for the first time. A simple 5-second message would have avoided the drama.
It is ironic that you are talking so much and are such a bad communicator. You say this after giving his post the finger?
Anyways I'm not salty at Sin at all like I said I don't hold grudges. I don't hate anyone. I just want him to keep his promises, and stop being so... secretive... It's like he tries to be sneaky but gets caught so easily every time he does this... Boggles my mind. That he doesn't take the time to give me a simple message that would avoid MAJOR drama...
Really? Were you laughing when writing this? Do you really believe after page on page of salty whining we are to believe you are not salty? ...secretive...? If it were me I would have told you to shut it and take a hike long ago. Or maybe mentally he did just that?
Sin is going to do what Sin is going to do. Based on all of his previous actions, and all conversations I have had with him here is what I think his plan is, and how he has executed it so far, and what I think he is trying to do in the future.
So if you are good and guessing his ideas and actions, how did things get so bad? Maybe all these outpourings are not considered pretty or nice, and make you look like you are salty.
I'm usually a pretty laid-back guy. To completely avoid the drama & conflict & stay on good terms with me here is what I think Sin needed to do differently, and it's seriously not a whole lot.
Again, bend your knee before me and do as you are told. But you do not come across as laid back. And it seems the more you do not get what you want, the more not laid back you become.
I am sorry, I have not played this game and so I should maybe stay quiet, but after reading the last 5 or so pages of you over sharing and contradicting yourself in self righteousness saltiness, I had to pipe up.
This is not about your game, or your very passionate zeal over it, it is about you and how you come across in your posts. I do not know you as a person, I am sure you are a nice and pleasant person for real, but in these posts...
Sin posted his costs of about $8500, that you agree you have not contributed too. That the GPU burnt out and needed replacing, that your scenes were too complex and heavy even when the GPU was available. And you talk about the costs in a way only one not bearing them can, like a spoilt princess. The costs are real, and if they were talked about up front, you should have listened back then as no one is going to do this for free unless is it a passion project. And for you it is, but you are not taking the hit on the running costs.
And then after he is bearing these costs, you deface his name and reputation, you demand the other party acts in a fashion to please you to "put things right", you publicly in my opinion act unprofessionally as to the point that if I was inclined to get involved in the genre creatively, I would certainly not want to work with you. Or continue if I was already.
(He can wait until he is fully healthy again and out of the hospital for all of this. I'm patient.)
1) Apologize for the way he handled the WoS launch releasing it behind my back, and then not tossing the author a mention or cameo. I felt that was extremely rude, and untrustworthy behavior. It really hurt my feelings that he would act that way.
2) Show that he cares about DG as much as he cares about WoS. No more all talk this requires action. Because actions speak louder than words. The fans are dying for an update. DG needs its own social media presence and to get back in production.
3) Act in a more trustworthy way moving forward. Keeping your promises, and being more willing to set solid internal schedules as we once did."Maybe later" is far too vague and open-ended for me to set aside time to work on something.
Very gracious of you to wait for the artist to get better. Very good.
1) You should apologise unreservedly for this salty out pouring in public. What ever the other party did, I am only commenting on your posts and the tone and salt in them.
2) Time is money. Being involved at the beginning does not breed love for it if it is costing money in the real world. Passion is no reason to lose money. Fan appeal should be reflected in patreon subs. If not, then it is false passion. If you want a art project, you might need to subsidise it to keep it cost neutral.
3) See 1. You should back right off and apologise to allow the other party the chance to respond like an adult. YOU have not acted in a trustworthy manner here in my eyes, and no matter how strong you feel about it, you reacted badly more than once, and more than once had to admit that you did not know all the facts after learning of them.
You want this game to continue? I if I was in the other shoes would not even consider a mediator. I would consider you untrustworthy and I would be weary of working with someone who writes these posts and rigorously feels they are in the right.
You talk about being painfully honest. I think honesty and tact are better directed to the person you have a beef with rather than just brutal whining in public as you did here. Your problems should never have been aired like this. No matter how wronged you feel, I feel it has painted you in a bad light.
my tuppence worth, and this is my own opinion one what I have just read.