not sure we should compare. we all like different things. i haven't tried Being A DIK since i dont like the pics and story. maybe its good?. but I have played both DmD and Melody and I think they are good, even if I dont like vanilla/harem games.
as for animations, theres a couple where the cock is too thick or is hitting all over the place. sure not perfect, and questionable since they get that much support, still, its not that bad to not play the game. text/story is what is important. DmD is in my top 10 games, while Being A DIK is not even in my list.