Well nothing that you said actually matters. She loves him, and she lets him cum inside when she's not on the pill, period. So this is just simply way more than normal swinging. But hey, maybe you just don't have a basic understanding of itShe loves him, but isn't in love with him. Just like she loves Elena, Jennifer/Georgina, and Olivia. Also, depending on what you chose re pregnancy, she is on the pill. Martin directly asked her if she is on the pill or not.