I have a ton of text online, and I agree with this. We're faced with choices when seeing criticism or when knowing for sure that we made mistakes. Either we paralyze (which isn't a proper option), we contradict every word of it (which is a waste of time and has a boomerang effect), or we deal with it maturely. People's comments usually say more about themselves than about anything else, and words only hurt us if we use them against ourselves. Usually at the heart of bad responses to critique there is an unworkable belief that needs to be tossed into the garbage heap (such as, "I'm better than that person because he made a mistake and I didn't"--then like all humans we make mistakes and the belief breaks).Truth is, putting your creative work out there is a hard thing to do. But that doesn't absolve you from criticism. You will likely be putting out crap, like the vast majority of people who make any sort of content. And even if you aren't putting out crap you will still receive criticism.
The proper response is not to run to hugboxes or lash out at the critics who may or may not be accurate in their complaints, but to put your head down and work hard to make something worthwhile.
I think there's more than just dysfunctional reactions to criticism going on here, however. I'll leave it at that.
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