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Except it's not left up to players' feelings, at least not the way that definition is worded. "Designed to..." makes it squarely a question of developer's intent. If the text of a game makes it clear the the MC's sex partners/love interests aren't expected to be monogamous and somebody who had a fundamentalist upbringing and is still operating on the ideas that were probably beat into them*—like "monogamy is the only valid way to do things and everything else is degeneracy"—doesn't like that, they don't have any justification to force an NTR tag on the game. That's why, when the Aya gangbang scene got added and some people pitched a fit and started insisting the game was degeneracy and scarred them for life and had to be tagged NTR post haste so nobody else would suffer their terrible fate, I pointed out the game had made it clear from the very start that Grolokk wasn't going to be the only one fucking the harem girls. Sharing wasn't even subtext, it was text. Missing that was on the people trying to force an inaccurate tag on the game.Some people will consider any character involved with somebody other than the MC in a harem game for example to be NTR here. You could easily say that a harem game is designed to focus all the characters at the player and the player alone. Leaving the definition up to the player's feeling can cause problems like that.
But, there's a special interest group here who really hate the idea of women being anything other than Vestal Virgins until they meet the MC and his divine cock, and then never, ever, so much as look twice at another man until the day they die of old age. That pressure group tries to get every single game whose female characters depart from their personal, feminine ideal tagged NTR because they know it's a controversial tag that will scare off a lot of people who would have otherwise played (and potentially financially supported) the game.
* — Look, I'm sympathetic, I was raised Mormon and I know it takes a long time to unlearn all that horseshit.