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I don't get what you're trying to say. Or is this just something that popped into your head because of what i said?
Okay,
Here is an interesting thing with Femdom (in my Experience). There are three very separate Phenomenons:
One is true Femdom, i.e. where you have a woman with a dominant personality and there is a power exchange with a submissive guy.
Two is sexual submission, where you have a guy with a submissive personality who, on purpose, puts a woman, who is not necessarily a dominant personality (temporarily) into a position of power over himself (mostly to get release from the stress that comes with having to put up a dominant facade in his professional life)
Three is not actual Femdom at all but can look like it. It is in fact a form of Baiting, where a feminine (at least somewhat submissive) woman puts up a (ultra) dominant front to weed out poser (beta) males and bait truly dominant, masculine (alpha) men into asserting themselves and "making her" show her true self. (This is REALLY common. Like literally >80% of straight women do this to one degree or another.)
Just some food for thought.
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We don't know yet for sure, but the fact that she had a relationship with a guy who then started to fuck around on her strongly suggests that 1. She is Bi-sexual, not lesbian (it's a continuous scale anyway, very few people are strictly one or the other) and 2. that the other guy was not some pussy-whipped beta male heellicker, but was in fact the dominant one in that relationship, which precludes the possibility of her being truly dominant at her core. Most likely she is some sort of alpha female, where she relinquishes power to her chosen male, shares that males other women and keeps the "pack" in check.
I am a major fan of this dynamic. If you can pull this off as a man, it's a thing of beauty. I had girls literally bring their female friends (and in one case her 'little' sister) around for me to fuck. It's amazing.
Of course, if Nottravis can pull it off, we could also get the option to chose one of the dynamics going forward. I can see some people wanting the MC to just be dominated by her and I respect that.
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If you think about it
1)Chris is kinda motherly towards her crew
2)likes guys that can control themselves but aren't too confident
3) she puts an effort to look good even if she claims to have a different target
4)she punished Annie but the MC received only an oral reprimand
It's the third type of femdom
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Where is Notty when you need her to wiggle her eyebrows and pretend she doesn't knowChris is four.
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Indeed, lesbians tend not to have husbands.
Or neither. I find this alpha, beta concept too shallow to be honest.
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She IS an Officer, so that's kinda her job.
This can very well be a "shit test". Like "Are you brave enough to call me on my bullshit?"
I'd love to get an Oral Reprimand from her *lecherous wink*
It's just like the 1-10 Hotness scale. It is very useful or completely useless depending on the context. Does it accurately and objectively describe every possible form of inter-personal relationship? No. Is it good enough to model a specific Situation in a specific Context? Yes.
The Alpha-Beta concept is very useful considering that (most) women sort men into 2 distinct categories:
1. Males that make good providers and that get the "i am a good girl. You have to at least date me for X weeks (or even marry me) before we can have sex and even then I pretend to be somewhat vanilla so you don't think bad of me"-treatment and
2. Males whose confidence get their pussies super wet but who have too many options to be tied down like that and with whom the woman can explore her sexuality without risking to lose a potential husband or long-term boyfriend.
And in that context the Alpha-Beta concept is very useful. Because the reactions you get from women depending in which category she sorts you are very, VERY different. Like Night and Day different. Of course in the 2 groups there are like a bazillion shades and also males can be in one group in one relationship and in another group in another relationship.
(The Alpha female thing though, that's another matter and has nothing to do with the dynamic above, if it even exists)
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I get your point, but I simply don't share this kind of thinking.
One of the things I like about the girls here is that I can't really put them in any categories. There is a lot of depth to them. Usually, if a character totally fits a certain stereotype, it means it's poorly written. That's something I'm keeping in mind now as I am creating characters for my own project. I start with a category, but then I build on so that in the end it is very hard to guess which category I started with.
One of the things I like about the girls here is that I can't really put them in any categories. There is a lot of depth to them. Usually, if a character totally fits a certain stereotype, it means it's poorly written. That's something I'm keeping in mind now as I am creating characters for my own project. I start with a category, but then I build on so that in the end it is very hard to guess which category I started with.
I was talking about real-life females, not characters. Of course, if you write characters for a movie, book, game, etc. you can have them do whatever the hell you want.
It's no coincidence that there is a Hollywood trope of "The lovable Loser who is socially awkward but then the Hot Babe Character sees his inner Goodness, falls head over heels in love with him and then She is the one who initiates a relationship ("You gonna kiss me or what?")". That never happens in real life, ever. As any Nerd can attest to.
But if you want that to happen in your story? Sure, why not. It can be hot.
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As a real-life nerd, I have to say that my experiences run counter to that. (Maybe not "head-over-heels in love" but certainly infatuation and/or lust.) Indeed, my marriage started out that way, as well as the few long-term relationships I had before that. Being as socially inept as I am, I miss cues all the time. My wife is constantly telling me which women are flirting with me when we're out, but I never catch it. Add introversion to the mix, and I likely would never have had any dates if it weren't for women making the first move. In fact, I had exactly one girlfriend before my Army days, and she was the exception to the high-school girls that wait for the guy to make the first move. We were a thing until her mother decided that I was the guy she should marry. She couldn't get away fast enough after that. Whatevs. It was good while it lasted.
I've come a long way in the past decade or so, so if I had it do all over again (knowing what I know now) I'd be able to take the initiative.
As a side note: my wife's friends who were always chasing after the "bad boys" have all either settled down or are reminding me that if my wife dies first they're next in line. Two of her friends picked their spouses based on how much the guy reminded them of me (in terms of personality and actions). So, nice guys may finish last, but we finish strong.
I guess the real moral of the story is, don't give up before the game is over, and don't sell yourself short. Be yourself. If she falls for you because you're acting in a way that isn't natural to you it won't last, and if she doesn't like you for who you are, then it'll never work out.
Well different in modern times. Now the nerd who's 25 and worth 2 billion with his tech company is spoiled for choice...
But if you're really going to get into the nitty gritty, you'd need to be a professional psychologist or something, going by personal experience is highy bias from a observing how RL works point of view. Why studies are so much about selection and test methodology. Just being the person you are, biases the type of people you interact with.
Like the rich nerd above, complaining how all woman are gold digger, while you'd get a very different perspective from a student with 50K in loans.
Maybe the dom women to the core have gone to bat for the other team as it were, because they got tired of all the guys trying to get to their 'true' submissiveness and they got fed up heh.
But if you're really going to get into the nitty gritty, you'd need to be a professional psychologist or something, going by personal experience is highy bias from a observing how RL works point of view. Why studies are so much about selection and test methodology. Just being the person you are, biases the type of people you interact with.
Like the rich nerd above, complaining how all woman are gold digger, while you'd get a very different perspective from a student with 50K in loans.
Maybe the dom women to the core have gone to bat for the other team as it were, because they got tired of all the guys trying to get to their 'true' submissiveness and they got fed up heh.
Hi guys,
I've been dabbling in Daz for a few weeks now, and I think this thread is in serious need of Annie's fanart
I've been dabbling in Daz for a few weeks now, and I think this thread is in serious need of Annie's fanart
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Helloooooo Chief!Hi guys,
I've been dabbling in Daz for a few weeks now, and I think this thread is in serious need of Annie's fanart
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Nice! Have you figured out what's the other hairstyle Annie wears? That one is eluding me and would be my preferred choice.Hi guys,
I've been dabbling in Daz for a few weeks now, and I think this thread is in serious need of Annie's fanart
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Here a little something from a setup I use to test models.
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Nice dressNice! Have you figured out what's the other hairstyle Annie wears? That one is eluding me and would be my preferred choice.
Here a little something from a setup I use to test models.
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I haven't found her other hairstyle yet, but I need to look into it.
That doesn't really prove anything because:
1) They are the same rank
2) MC is not under her command (unlike Annie)
3) depending on the orders they had, MC could actually be superior officer while on the station (she's superior while on board Vanguad)
Basically, I'm not sure Chris have any authority to do anything to MC other than report him to their superiors... which she can't even do at the moment due to communications being down (that's if she's willing to do that since it would also create a problem for Annie).
That other guy is "senior mission officer" on Intrepid which would make him rather high up in the ranks (possibly even highest ranked individual on Intrepid!) so their marriage might have been one of convenience. For her more than for him.