One way to take pressure off yourself is to pause Patreon payments as long as you have enough savings to do so. And work on the game for free for a while.
2-3 years without update but still earning a lot of $$$$ from patreon..... Not a chance
I'm afraid that this is another scam, especially after he announced that we will get a new update before a new year (2023)...
and then he said something about Christmas update - and still nothing....
and then he said that he is working on Christmas update, and the 0.1.3 update is on-hold because of this....
and then 2023 came, and he said he is working hard on Christmas update, and will resume work on 0.1.3 after he finish this....
and some time later he announced, he's bad at planing, and apologised and don't know when he will finish this.. but is still working on this
and now another month is at the end, and we still not have 0.1.3 nor even this Christmas update....
But he still earns $$$ for patreon, and claims he's working on updates etc . . .
(And BOOM!! - After my comment, the next day he releases both Christmas update and 0.1.3.. "Mark my words"