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Yes, and that also makes her worst in my book, her time has passed her by and should step aside. How so, she butts in between Lexi and the MC as if either of them had any obligation to her. It could be argued that Lexi has an obligation out of loyalty to her friend but that is just petty and egotistical on Erynn's side. Also, the MC needs some self-respect. How many men in real life actually keep the friendship with the girl that rejected them, very few and I won't comment on them.
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from a guy's point of view, lexi does indeed have an obligation towards erynn as she knows who MC is
and guys don't touch something who their bro has "reserved", to say so
but women don't share the same values as men. they don't have that rule. and people (guys) who play this game hold that against lexi because they apply their own view of the situation
just to note - I am not defending lexi nor trying to slander her. this is a neutral post about life in the wilderness
and guys don't touch something who their bro has "reserved", to say so
but women don't share the same values as men. they don't have that rule. and people (guys) who play this game hold that against lexi because they apply their own view of the situation
just to note - I am not defending lexi nor trying to slander her. this is a neutral post about life in the wilderness
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I don't get this... Would you be ok if your bff did this to you? First thing she does after recognizing MC is try to literally fuck him...
There is a sign of absence of moral standards here...
And the fact that people argue about this is proof enough.
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Life seems pretty black and white for you.Yes, and that also makes her worst in my book, her time has passed her by and should step aside. How so, she butts in between Lexi and the MC as if either of them had any obligation to her. It could be argued that Lexi has an obligation out of loyalty to her friend but that is just petty and egotistical on Erynn's side. Also, the MC needs some self-respect. How many men in real life actually keep the friendship with the girl that rejected them, very few and I won't comment on them.
Teens and preteens (like Erynn and MC back at the time) were exactly that, young people doing shit and not knowing anything about serious matters.
You never changed ideas ?
All is fair in love and war.
If you don't think that men and women are fighting little wars for a partner that they want... Well, that is a sad world you live in. Someone, somewhere, will eventually want to fight for you. It'll be ok!
If you don't think that men and women are fighting little wars for a partner that they want... Well, that is a sad world you live in. Someone, somewhere, will eventually want to fight for you. It'll be ok!
Let me frame this to you this way. I rejected a girl in the past because at the time I didn't have feelings for her, cool, then fast-forward some years and some failed relations. Now I start to wonder if I fucked up. I keep telling my best friend I would take her now. But then they start to like each other, while I am in no position to be offer her a relation because I am an escort and she no longer has an interest in me. I would tell him to swim in the mud to his life's contempt.
In real life I had a somewhat similar situation. A really good friend of mine (we have been friends for over 28 years and still are) asked me about this woman he knew I tried to have a relation with (asked her to be my girlfriend). I said to him "she wants nothing to do with me, go for it". There is nothing to it, there were only my flights of fancy (in my mind), nothing more.
The "reserved" concept is valid when you first call dibs man. Once you struck out that shit is free border.
Similarly, the bros before hoes concept applies to an ass you have already tapped. So Erynn should have had to already fucked the MC. She struck out and is now just having mental wanks.
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So this is how a friend does it... He tells you... This how i would do it... But Alexis... nope
Sure, I do, but life does not rewrite itself just because I changed my mind. I cannot hold accountable anybody else to my choices.
About the teens argument. I always had a problem understanding that as an excuse since I was held accountable for my actions since I was 15 years old. It was my business if I attended school (heck I even had to pay for it myself), if I offended someone, if I did something or didn't, my parents did not intervene. For fuck's sake at 16 years old you can stand trial as an adult.
In that regard life is really black and white, if you want the grey areas, the kindness of people, that is up to them (the people) if they want to give it, you can't demand it.
Yeah, I'll give the reason to you about that. It is always nice to get the courtesy. Still, it does not give Erynn any standing to forbid their relation, in my opinion.
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Alexis definitely knows more about Erynn's feelings after the MC left, than us readers..Yes, and that also makes her worst in my book, her time has passed her by and should step aside. How so, she butts in between Lexi and the MC as if either of them had any obligation to her. It could be argued that Lexi has an obligation out of loyalty to her friend but that is just petty and egotistical on Erynn's side. Also, the MC needs some self-respect. How many men in real life actually keep the friendship with the girl that rejected them, very few and I won't comment on them.
That's why she hid the truth....
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I don't think she was rejecting him, I believe she just needed time to think about how she truly feels.
She sure does. But I kind of get that you did not get the point I was making. I might have worded it the wrong way.
I have already said that the argument can be made regarding Lexi's fuck up. "It could be argued that Lexi has an obligation out of loyalty to her friend". But my main point is not that, my main point is that Erynn has no standing to impede them. She has no say in how they live their lives. Best she could hope for was the curtesy of being informed, too bad she didn't get it.
It's related to what the user I responded to was saying, she lost the romantic aspect but that does not mean she lost her friend. I concurred with him but differing on the losing the friendship and added that because she lost the romantic aspect with the MC, she no longer has the right to dictate the MC's romantic life. Just that.
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Yup, as a friend Alexis sucks...
She definitely should've said something...
To both the MC and Erynn.
- Apr 19, 2021
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well, look at it however you wantThe "reserved" concept is valid when you first call dibs man. Once you struck out that shit is free border.
Similarly, the bros before hoes concept applies to an ass you have already tapped. So Erynn should have had to already fucked the MC. She struck out and is now just having mental wanks.
be it just calling dibs on one end or marrying the chick at the other end
but women don't have that
- Jul 25, 2020
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Alexis certainly knew how Erynn felt, however Alexis felt the same and has done from the start. She's the one who went after MC after the flower incident and kissed him not Erynn. After hearing MC's story she realised that once MC saw Erynn again her chance would be gone, so she took her only chance to make a move. Yes, she could have been honest with MC regarding who she was, but again that could have cost her what she thought was her only chance.
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I don't think Alexis ever liked the MC in the past..
They knew of each other, that's it.
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Then why did she go after him after the Erynn flower incident? She then not only told MC that she wished someone would do something that romantic for her but she then kisses him, does every girl do that with boys they only know of?
It feels like people are playing a different game than me or just can't read. Everyone saying different shit instead of actually mentioning what is in the game.
She didn't kiss him. He stole a kiss from her.
She didn't go after him to comfort him. She was going home and accidentally saw mc sitting against the garage door.
On the other topic. Erynn isn't angry at Alexis for dating mc, she's angry Alexis didn't tell her that mc has been back for several days.