- Jul 1, 2017
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I don't understand this logic. So if you perceive someone is cheating, it doesn't matter if they actually aren't since "perception trumps intent?" I don't consider that rational behaviour. I understand that people aren't always rational when it comes to relationships, but that doesn't mean it should be that way.I gotta agree with the other guy that perception trumps intent in many relationship contexts.
IRL girls get mad at guys for stuff like this ALL THE TIME. (sometimes reasonably, sometimes not) - but the point is it's not always about whether someone is acting "objectively kind" or "objectively mean", it's about if they're considered how their actions/words will impact the other person they care about.
Also don't agree that it only matters to who you care about. Like, if someone is nice to your family but is mean to everyone else, it only matters that they're nice to your family? So, if Alexis acted shitty to everyone, but as long as she's an angel to MC that's all that matters to you?