I've cut back on spa visits a lot actually because it was turning into a major financial drain, was contributing to spoiling, and I was trying to rely more on beach time so we could both get clean and make her more receptive to other activities. Which of course I was trying to make sure she earned it through performance so I could justify doing it. I think the major thing contributing to her spoiling was the fact that despite picking up the weakened metabolism trait, she actually wound up losing weight so I had to adjust with the physical activities I was making her do while increasing her portions and tried to use the bed and fresh food as a means of helping me maintain her mood which was becoming unstable. The save I'm uploading includes the changes I made to reduce her rules and such while also cutting back on privileges to prevent spoiling. Just about to play it through to see if I can do it. lol