Well, the reason I asked wasn't to sound rude, because to remove a scene in form of a menu choice is the easiest thing in the world. There would be less content of course, but it's just one scene. So I asked because if it bothers you (and by you I mean the plural form of you, not you directly because I'm quoting you) to such an extent that it feels going through something you'd rather not do, I feel I should rethink just that instead of making it forced.
But by 'everything about her has been forced', that goes for a whole lot of things in the story. Some quick examples, kissing Cece on the bench, bringing Linda and Cece to your house, going bowling with Kira. I still like to think it's a long way from being a kinetic novel.
If anything, I've always felt it would be a good idea to listen to ideas. Not to reshape the story in anyway. It branches if you reject Steph anyway, and that would apply equally well with leaving her background story out of it. But if you really felt that the story is better without seeing her again, I should at least consider the option.