but as i kept saying i followed the guide to the latter and she still left
If you follow the walkthrough mindlessly, then you are going to get in trouble as soon as you make the slightest mistake. That's why I created my guide, to help people get unstuck without telling them "follow this script like a robot, if you are not a robot and mess up, too bad." (guide here:
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As I said, you cannot tell her about your feelings until you are certain that that inhibition is gone. You have to have revealed the secret, talked to her about it after ending the spell, and then cast remove inhibitions and remove the inhibition. It's very easy to try to remove the inhibition before talking about it with her, since it's right there on the screen and you just revealed the secret, but that does not work because you have to have had the conversation about it first.
Best to go back into the remove inhibitions screen and make *certain* that the option to remove it is no longer there, *before* you talk to her about your feelings.