Viressa

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Wait since when a simple footjob (never understood icstor fixation with them) is considered S&M play? :oops:
Vanilla footjobs no, the kind where the woman stands over the man and steps on his cock, yes. Usually the latter is done with the woman wearing spiked heels which dig into the man's scrotum and cause intense pain.

(I think footplay is gross, and femdom is a real turn-off when I'm inhabiting a male character. I like it just fine with a female protagonist though.)
 

TomberryDude

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So you're saying that BADIK is absolutely superior to MC?
I have a confession to make. BADIK is a fine game and all but I don't really like the girls in it. Their faces are beautiful but their tits and asses look unnatural for most of them.

Vanilla footjobs no, the kind where the woman stands over the man and steps on his cock, yes. Usually the latter is done with the woman wearing spiked heels which dig into the man's scrotum and cause intense pain.

(I think footplay is gross, and femdom is a real turn-off when I'm inhabiting a male character. I like it just fine with a female protagonist though.)
I dunno what kind of parties you go to but can I be invited? In all seriousness though, footjob does seem to me like it puts... whoever stepping on my schlong in position of "superiority" but not enough to be anywhere near BDSM. I don't find it gross either. Don't particularly care of it but it's nice for a change of pace.
 

Viressa

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I dunno what kind of parties you go to but can I be invited? In all seriousness though, footjob does seem to me like it puts... whoever stepping on my schlong in position of "superiority" but not enough to be anywhere near BDSM. I don't find it gross either. Don't particularly care of it but it's nice for a change of pace.
BDSM is a spectrum: There's very light stuff on one end, and very heavy stuff on another end. This spectrum goes for both stimulation play (what we stereotypically think as "BDSM" with the whips and gimp masks) as well as D/s relationship dynamics. A lot of folks in the community's BDSM looks nothing like 50 Shades: They have just a relationship dynamic (such as service, mommying/daddying, or even a master-slave relationship, and any of these can be full time or part time) and don't do any of the painplay stuff. It's all still BDSM.
 
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BDSM is a spectrum: There's very light stuff on one end, and very heavy stuff on another end. This spectrum goes for both stimulation play (what we stereotypically think as "BDSM" with the whips and gimp masks) as well as D/s relationship dynamics. A lot of folks in the community's BDSM looks nothing like 50 Shades: They have just a relationship dynamic (such as service, mommying/daddying, or even a master-slave relationship, and any of these can be full time or part time) and don't do any of the painplay stuff. It's all still BDSM.
None of this was my point. No part of a footjob involves sadism or masochism in and of itself. Even, in my opinion, if the woman is standing up doing it.

I'm not even sure what 50 shades has to do with anything as I havent read the book or seen the movies. And I don't know what D/s mean.
 
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