Couldn't say better. Sometimes is so hard for us to put in other people shoes, specially if we are directly involved, but we can always aim to be better at it as we go older, 20 yo me would be fast to judge and be impulsive, fortunately near 50 yo me tries hard to put in the other side perspective and think twice on my reaction, not always achieved hehe I blame my latin bloodI agree and i think the behavior of MC's dad was a great example for that, everything is a matter of perspective.
From Klara's perspective (and everyone who loves the mc) i can fully understand and support jovian's actions/decisions, he did everything he could to keep his family safe. It can even be considered heroic.
But from Hera's perspective? Nah, he's just a pure monster and nothing could justify what he did, he murdered her son and husband, the reasons simply doesnt matter. She should of course have an even bigger grudge against jovian's employer but i can fully understand why she wants jovian dead.