What do you mean by cheatmod? Do you mean
URM? You don't need that to access the Cheat menu (it comes with the game):
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Note that sometimes it doesn't matter what your stats are if the scene/event you want to trigger needs other states to be active in order to trigger. Usually this just mean you need to progress other parts of the game first. Sometimes it means your gamestate is borked and you'll either need to start from an earlier save or to fix it by changing some variables via
URM.