I'm not going to go into too many details on this, but "my friend" was in a relationship once like becca's and martin's. He was not just abusive, but physically beat her to within an inch of her life...constantly. Let's just put it this way it was exactly the same situation, sorry this is hard for me to put into words here but, I know from said experience that it is NOT just as easy as doing something, it's one of the reasons I feel strongly about this game. When you have someone who is almost "untouchable" by normal means, can physically abuse you in public while people shout "yeah get her", and then threaten the life of your newborn child (that they found a loophole to be able to keep from you in a divorce) and everyone you hold dear, you don't just "get up and do something", you do what you think you must to keep that love of your life...alive, even if it means never being able to see them again, you think.
And just as a side note, I helped them to find their child after...well, after we knew each other and yes, it takes time, but same as MC and becca. It was, as she put it, the second most happiest day of her life, the first was giving birth to him. Again sorry for being long winded...Dangit Killer7, what has your game done to me rofl.