- Apr 8, 2020
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Okay, you literally ignore peer-reviewed studies because you feel like they are not real, so I'm done on that front.Those "studies" are all bullshit. No different than that study on Vaccine-Autism relation. Sure some do turn out like their parents. But assuming that someone is like that the moment you meet them does not make you a better person.
And yes you can see someone's personality traits if you observe them over the years, specially if they don't know they are being watched.
I don't need to do an experiment. I lived it. And so did a whole lot of other people I know. My morals came completely from me and some from the people whom I looked up to. And I am hardly an exception. My brother and I are nothing like our parents neither are my cousins or either of my best friends. However I know people who came from parents who were loving and caring people. One went to prison for murder, another became a drug dealer and there is more like them.
I judge people by everything what they have done in their past and what they are doing now. It all shapes them into what is to come. But I don't change people by what their families are like.
It depends, she probably hired a PI, and if the MC didn't have actual interactions with the world at a significant level, no they would not be able to, but I already explained that, hell even if he did people can fake it outside of their homes.
Yes there are, and I'm actually someone that fits on the first description, that does not change the fact that people are influenced by the world around them, good that you actually were able to get out of the vicious cycle, but not everyone can, not everyone knows they are in a cycle like that, and as I said Nature + Nurture, also, it can depend on what you consider a loving and caring, I'll not assume to know, but things are different behind closed doors, and are also received different to different minds.
Good for you, as I said after I give a second chance I judge people from that point forward, that is just a difference between our philosophies, and I don't judge people from their families either, also I never said it was ok, or a good thing, I said Elaine was justified, dumb, but justified.
And actually I'm not done with the studies, if you were right, Behaviour science wouldn't be a thing and psychology wouldn't be a thing either if you do have any evidence of your claim though please private message me because I would actually want to learn, but so far most if not all the studies I found and things I experienced prove you wrong, judging the reality of something based purely on personal experience is, in my opinion, not a smart thing to do because people have different experiences and experience things differently.
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