Yes I ignore those studies. I've been through the ringer of that "system" and I've been a part of some of their "studies". They are as full of it as it gets. People say it's a common thing for abused to become abusers, but it's only because that's the only cases we hear about. No different than what racists do. Pick a rotten apple out of a basket of yummy apples and judge the whole basket as rotten.Okay, you literally ignore peer-reviewed studies because you feel like they are not real, so I'm done on that front.
It depends, she probably hired a PI, and if the MC didn't have actual interactions with the world at a significant level, no they would not be able to, but I already explained that, hell even if he did people can fake it outside of their homes.
Yes there are, and I'm actually someone that fits on the first description, that does not change the fact that people are influenced by the world around them, good that you actually were able to get out of the vicious cycle, but not everyone can, not everyone knows they are in a cycle like that, and as I said Nature + Nurture, also, it can depend on what you consider a loving and caring, I'll not assume to know, but things are different behind closed doors, and are also received different to different minds.
Good for you, as I said after I give a second chance I judge people from that point forward, that is just a difference between our philosophies, and I don't judge people from their families either, also I never said it was ok, or a good thing, I said Elaine was justified, dumb, but justified.
And actually I'm not done with the studies, if you were right, Behaviour science wouldn't be a thing and psychology wouldn't be a thing either if you do have any evidence of your claim though please private message me because I would actually want to learn, but so far most if not all the studies I found and things I experienced prove you wrong, judging the reality of something based purely on personal experience is, in my opinion, not a smart thing to do because people have different experiences and experience things differently.
I know there are good and honest psychiatrists out there. I had one of them. And unlike others she did not jump on that band wagon. She got to know me before anything. She was also the only who actually tried to help me. The rest just shove my mouth full of pills and demanded to know why I am pretending to be something I am not. And I had a great psychologist who also tried to help me. She was awesome person to boot.