In fact, author somewhat confused all his menus with choice of "with whom to go home". So, in order for party/visit Alyssa's home (old event) trigers as events, you need to "return home", but not to leave with "someone".
Does anyone understand requirement for a joint gathering? (see attach) I tried in different ways, but menu still doesn't allow inviting wife. All other events seem to work fine. Strictly speaking, latest addition didn't much defuse confusing situation with events. Everything is too chaotic, scattered and inconsistent, imo it's impossible to say exactly how and where plot is moving (also why so; some branches ends off without any logic), player's choice is too arbitrary/conditional... either yes, and you see scenes, or no, and you mostly see nothing (and everything else doesn't carry virtually any semantic meaning yet)