My point is this: If we do not draw clear distinctions then there will always be confusion and frustration amongst the community.
Other terms exist in this genre, Stag/Vixen for example, for situations where both partners are supportive and consenting, there's no humiliation is involved, and where the MC is more dominant and in control of the scenes. That is Netorase (in my opinion to be fair.)
If you start to add in things like name calling (i.e. "Cuck", "Cucky", etc.) which is clearly not meant to be a supportive phrase in this context, then you start to blur that line between Netorase and Netorare and we have the resulting confusion amongst users.
To be clear, I don't mind a netorare story as long as it's clear from the beginning that that's what is the theme. What frustrates me is when you get this really mixed bag of tone and context that makes it unclear as to which direction the story is heading.