This is complete nonsense. That might be YOUR Ian if you pick those routes, but that is not THE Ian.How is that different from what we see from Ian? He's willing to be with Emma even though he knows that his friend Perry has a thing for her. He's willing to cuck his friend Wade just to have Cindy. He's willing to pursue Cherry even after he finds out from Lena about her and Axel. Ian is just as much the stereotypical porn game protagonist.
No one forces you to pursue Cindy, or sleep with Emma, or go after Cherry.
Surely you understand that listing all possible routes as proof of personality makes absolutely no sense.