I think the pain of someone I don't know is different from the pain of the main character of the story I'm immersed inDoes anyone find the appeal of NTR to be the enjoyment of watching others' humiliation? Classic schadenfreude, kind of like gawking at a car crash, or watching "fail" videos. Maybe some people like it as a cuckold fantasy, but for me NTR is more sadistic than masochistic.