kjj308

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Looks like I'm late to the party here, and also looks like quite a few of the other attendees at the party got drunk before responding and threw a whole lot of shade and even a little bit of hate as drunks often do.

Firstly, Everyone here has a right to their own opinions. dude has been a member here for like 2 months and barely has 5 posts down. I've seen guys who've been members for 3 years complain about NTR in games that were clearly tagged that way. So telling a New Member he shouldn't complain because it's tagged, is ridiculous. This site is shit about explaining things to new members. It's all trial and error/ figure it out as you go here. then add on top of that the fact that he didn't actually get the game from here. Just wow. The good news for kjj308 is that there are actually plenty of non-incest games on this site as well.

Now secondly, some have made a blanket statement along the lines of that, no one here is wanting to do their family. that's probably true for a majority, not for all though. I have actually seen a guy in another thread complain about how long the dev was dragging out the slow burn between family members by saying that it took him way less time to seduce and bang his own sister IRL. So yeah, there are some out there who are fantasizing about exactly that.

For myself, and probably many others as well, It's not the thought of our own actual relatives that we find interesting in games that have an incest element. rather, it's the taboo of the subject mater that is entertaining. Personally, my sister, she's overweight and not physically attractive in my view, so when I play a game where the MC finds himself living with a hot step-sister, I am not thinking of reality in any way. Also, I have no daughters, nor will I ever as a result of prostate cancer. So this particular game has no relationship to reality for me, but there is still the element of the taboo nature of the relationship between the characters that is intriguing. Do you enjoy movies like the Italian Job? Where a group of "criminals" wins in the end? Why? does it mean you are going to rush out and commit crimes, or is it the taboo?
For me, I'd rather read a story without the incest tag, but sometimes it's fun to try to rationalize what events would lead to it... the apocalyptic themes and changing social mores of Hot Sands of Antarctica or Now & Then... the "convenience" of the step relationships in Chasing Sunsets and Sunshine Love... or the absurd comedy within Grandma's House. Then there's some understandability like with the cousin in Bare Witness, but I'm really just enjoying stories and character renders.

Maddison is hot as hell, but I don't look at her as a daughter. I'm reading this one because the characters are gorgeous and the story is interesting enough so far. And I never fantasize about my own family. It's just not my thing. The story is supreme for me. If it makes sense to, I'll patch a novel so I don't have to read, "landlady" a million times. Otherwise, I'm not interested in shoving a square incest block in a round, unrelated hole.

As you say, most of us are just reading smut and not inserting our real life into it alongside ourselves.
Yes, yes, I guess given enough time, the knee-jerk reactions die down and we get some actually well-thought responses. Yes, I do get that it's not a 1-to-1 translation that someone wants to really do that. What I actually said (they've deleted it because apparently having an opposing opinion is bad...) is I don't get the DRAW of it. Meaning, I get that people are drawn to things for different reasons, and sometimes those reasons don't mean they actually want to do it. What I'm saying is I don't get the DRAW to these kinds of fantasies. That's it.

It's like if I came into a forum about sandwiches and I say "WTF, why does every new sandwich now have to have avocado, ewww, I hate avocados!" And then all of the avocado-lovers jump in and go "OMG, you eat other sandwiches, why are you condiment-shaming people for liking avocados?" And I've clarified many times I'm only speaking for myself, you guys do you, I'm just a bit frustrated that so many times when I find an adult game with characters that fit my preference physically that it ends up being some story that involves an element that I personally do not like. That's it. Like it could have been that I hate blondes, brunettes, or red-heads, it's a preference, relax people, lol. :ROFLMAO:

Like if a large number of new games involve... let me think of something not controversial, like that thing where the woman is a giant and you can go inside her mouth or whatever. I'd complain if most games do that too because I also don't get the draw of that and personally don't want to play those games. Nothing against those who want to, go ahead. But it's just frustrating for me because then it limits my choices, that's all. I don't see how that is offensive in any way... *shrug*
 

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Yes, yes, I guess given enough time, the knee-jerk reactions die down and we get some actually well-thought responses. Yes, I do get that it's not a 1-to-1 translation that someone wants to really do that. What I actually said (they've deleted it because apparently having an opposing opinion is bad...) is I don't get the DRAW of it. Meaning, I get that people are drawn to things for different reasons, and sometimes those reasons don't mean they actually want to do it. What I'm saying is I don't get the DRAW to these kinds of fantasies. That's it.

It's like if I came into a forum about sandwiches and I say "WTF, why does every new sandwich now have to have avocado, ewww, I hate avocados!" And then all of the avocado-lovers jump in and go "OMG, you eat other sandwiches, why are you condiment-shaming people for liking avocados?" And I've clarified many times I'm only speaking for myself, you guys do you, I'm just a bit frustrated that so many times when I find an adult game with characters that fit my preference physically that it ends up being some story that involves an element that I personally do not like. That's it. Like it could have been that I hate blondes, brunettes, or red-heads, it's a preference, relax people, lol. :ROFLMAO:

Like if a large number of new games involve... let me think of something not controversial, like that thing where the woman is a giant and you can go inside her mouth or whatever. I'd complain if most games do that too because I also don't get the draw of that and personally don't want to play those games. Nothing against those who want to, go ahead. But it's just frustrating for me because then it limits my choices, that's all. I don't see how that is offensive in any way... *shrug*
I know exactly what you mean, you ask why they like something and they get offended for you even asking. I ask about why people like NTR all the time and never get a real answer, they get offended, try to "convert" me to liking it, just talk about the character they want to cuck them. Never answering why.
 
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You don't go into a group of people liking one thing, and ask them why they like it while explaining why they shouldn't/why it's bad. Works for everything: sports, hobbies, people...
 

armond

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You don't go into a group of people liking one thing, and ask them why they like it while explaining why they shouldn't/why it's bad. Works for everything: sports, hobbies, people...
I only ever ask why? I get something similar with people who tell me they are vegan ( i never ask) at some point they tell me they are getting all the protein they need, unprompted. I say it must make shopping for groceries easier.
 
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Yes, yes, I guess given enough time, the knee-jerk reactions die down and we get some actually well-thought responses. Yes, I do get that it's not a 1-to-1 translation that someone wants to really do that. What I actually said (they've deleted it because apparently having an opposing opinion is bad...) is I don't get the DRAW of it. Meaning, I get that people are drawn to things for different reasons, and sometimes those reasons don't mean they actually want to do it. What I'm saying is I don't get the DRAW to these kinds of fantasies. That's it.

It's like if I came into a forum about sandwiches and I say "WTF, why does every new sandwich now have to have avocado, ewww, I hate avocados!" And then all of the avocado-lovers jump in and go "OMG, you eat other sandwiches, why are you condiment-shaming people for liking avocados?" And I've clarified many times I'm only speaking for myself, you guys do you, I'm just a bit frustrated that so many times when I find an adult game with characters that fit my preference physically that it ends up being some story that involves an element that I personally do not like. That's it. Like it could have been that I hate blondes, brunettes, or red-heads, it's a preference, relax people, lol. :ROFLMAO:

Like if a large number of new games involve... let me think of something not controversial, like that thing where the woman is a giant and you can go inside her mouth or whatever. I'd complain if most games do that too because I also don't get the draw of that and personally don't want to play those games. Nothing against those who want to, go ahead. But it's just frustrating for me because then it limits my choices, that's all. I don't see how that is offensive in any way... *shrug*
The draw is that is different

Its not a tipical romance story, it spices up with something that is not common (and for good reasons). Its another element, a rare one, and no, its not a preference.

Its the same with harem, it unrealistic as hell, but because of it, its something attractive to many.

I would NEVER play a game where the story is similar to my own story, there is no reason for that in my opinion, i already know that story, its like reason a book that you already know the story

I want unreal stories, i want things that dont happen in real life. Hell, in some games i dont even care about the lewd scenes if the story is really good but isnt normal (like in talotral games)
 

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Yes, yes, I guess given enough time, the knee-jerk reactions die down and we get some actually well-thought responses. Yes, I do get that it's not a 1-to-1 translation that someone wants to really do that. What I actually said (they've deleted it because apparently having an opposing opinion is bad...) is I don't get the DRAW of it. Meaning, I get that people are drawn to things for different reasons, and sometimes those reasons don't mean they actually want to do it. What I'm saying is I don't get the DRAW to these kinds of fantasies. That's it.

It's like if I came into a forum about sandwiches and I say "WTF, why does every new sandwich now have to have avocado, ewww, I hate avocados!" And then all of the avocado-lovers jump in and go "OMG, you eat other sandwiches, why are you condiment-shaming people for liking avocados?" And I've clarified many times I'm only speaking for myself, you guys do you, I'm just a bit frustrated that so many times when I find an adult game with characters that fit my preference physically that it ends up being some story that involves an element that I personally do not like. That's it. Like it could have been that I hate blondes, brunettes, or red-heads, it's a preference, relax people, lol. :ROFLMAO:

Like if a large number of new games involve... let me think of something not controversial, like that thing where the woman is a giant and you can go inside her mouth or whatever. I'd complain if most games do that too because I also don't get the draw of that and personally don't want to play those games. Nothing against those who want to, go ahead. But it's just frustrating for me because then it limits my choices, that's all. I don't see how that is offensive in any way... *shrug*
Totally agree. There's a vocal, tiny minority out there that just screams to have it inserted into things... and it becomes obvious that they don't care about story. I feel like -at that point- just look at ANYTHING and pretend it's your sister and just leave us the hell alone. It hasn't gotten that bad yet, but the Pale Carnations community is dealing with people trying to argue for the right to fuck the MC's mom, and we're like, dude... it just doesn't make any sense to the story. The MC doesn't look at her that way. The dev is active in the thread and is rejecting the idea. I just don't like people messing with artistic visions. Sometimes, there's too much "access" that shapes mainstream creations. It shows up in our communities here a lot.

Now when it is baked into the novel, like here, or -in a surprisingly good story- like in A Petal Among Thorns (the developing sequel is really good too), it's really up to the discerning reader to decide if it feels "believable" enough to push on... assuming they're not explicitly there for the incest tag.

It appears that you are completely turned off by the idea of it, and I completely understand that. Because while I am open to a good story, it does absolutely nothing for me as far as the "taboo" or whatever excuse most people use that are here for that. I think, for me, the reasoning I've touched on is why I can usually tolerate it. I generally have to "transport" myself in my fantasy while reading something like this. I can't read something with incest in it where the world hasn't been transformed or, at minimum, there aren't huge mitigating circumstances like a coma... or 20 years apart. Or witness protection... like in Bare Witness... there's a character in that named Hannah that is basically the best dirty talker in any of these VNs lol... and the MC's cousin is sweet and just always had a crush or whatever, but Hannah walks in on her giving the MC fellatio and open-mindedly (harem game, MASH all the way lol) accepts it and starts talking... my point is, I wasn't even thinking about the cousin thing until she says something in the MC's ear and triggered his "arrival" and I thought, "okay, now THAT'S hot". And then I could understand many of the incest "enjoyers" chasing that runner's high of that. There are moments where there's an interesting scenario, social mores change, or someone just says something dirty and I'm on board for the writing. Otherwise, like you, I'll pass. I uninstall if it just reads like a bad incest video on PornHub or something. No thanks.

I think most people would agree with you that they don't want every single decent game out there to be "special service" for something they don't like. I do wish more people were accepting (not meaning you in any way, moreso the "incest or I'm unsupporting your Patreon" crowd) of slightly alternate stories. My very favorite is Pale Carnations and I have absolutely ZERO interest in BDSM. I just can't look away at Edwin's plight lol. I keep checking in on Radiant hoping for signs of continuing work because I love the art and the character interplay is heartwarming. I hope you find more of what you're looking for, too!

Cheers, mate.
 

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So... are the bets open if the update is coming out in Fev, or we expecting another 14-month dev plan?
 

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So... are the bets open if the update is coming out in Fev, or we expecting another 14-month dev plan?
The Dev has said "something" will be coming out February/Fevrier.
But that something could be a partial update to be dropped in multiple deliveries.
My hope is for a 6-9 month update plan rather than the 14 month reputational disaster of 0.4.
 

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will never even think of pledge to this MILKER DEVELOPER nai, ie, muri janai . HE IS THE MOST troll dev here . he even laugh at his own lies and fan base so nope . H e is no trustable . 16 months for a 2 bit, 10 year child level, update nope .

and there are lik 1k od apes who belive on him . so tell me about how the world is messed up
 

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You don't go into a group of people liking one thing, and ask them why they like it while explaining why they shouldn't/why it's bad. Works for everything: sports, hobbies, people...
i can tell u why i like NTR, first any game i play i know im not that person, im a sadist, i like games where ppl are in pain any kind of pain, so ntr is allowed. I dont like romance games when is all romance and mc fucks everything i stop playinig
 

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i can tell u why i like NTR, first any game i play i know im not that person, im a sadist, i like games where ppl are in pain any kind of pain, so ntr is allowed. I dont like romance games when is all romance and mc fucks everything i stop playinig
uh what?
 

kjj308

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The draw is that is different

Its not a tipical romance story, it spices up with something that is not common (and for good reasons). Its another element, a rare one, and no, its not a preference.

Its the same with harem, it unrealistic as hell, but because of it, its something attractive to many.

I would NEVER play a game where the story is similar to my own story, there is no reason for that in my opinion, i already know that story, its like reason a book that you already know the story

I want unreal stories, i want things that dont happen in real life. Hell, in some games i dont even care about the lewd scenes if the story is really good but isnt normal (like in talotral games)
Hm, thanks for the answer. And yes I get that you wouldn't want a story about a guy that goes to work every day and nothing special happens, haha. But like, even if I'm watching a movie, yes I am on the same page as you in that obviously the circumstances are more interesting if it's not something that's currently happening, but at the same time the reason why I question these things is that for me I still would only like the characters if I could relate to them. So like if the main character is just an a-hole and just treats everyone like crap but still feels entitled to everything, yah, I have no interest in watching a movie about this person... unless something bad happens to him, lol. But I guess I get your point.

But in terms of an adult game, it has to "turn you on" to put it crudely. And for me I still feel like it needs to be something that actually, well, turns you on... So I guess my question really is why it turns you on if it's not something you actually want to do? I mean, you don't have to answer, I'm just clarifying why I ask these things. Like I've always said, I can only speak for myself and I'm not telling anyone else what they should or should not like. The only thing that frustrates me is merely that I don't like it (as in it's actually a turn off), so it limits my game choices when so many of them have it that have characters that fit what I'm looking for physically.

Which is another thing that I know is a minority opinion. I honestly do not like voluptuous women, like with the huge ass, huge breasts, etc... And the majority of h-games feature people with really exaggerated features like that. Yes, I totally understand, it's their dream body type, it's fantasy, so they can exaggerate to their heart's desires, I get it. But so that already limits my choices. I like slender/fit women and for me, that also means proportionally smaller breasts and ass looks better for that body type (again, just MY personal preference, no offense to anyone who disagrees!!). And so finding H-games with characters like that, like a good chunk of them (in this game Olivia would be that person who drew me in from the screenshots from another website, itch) they turn out to be the MC's sister or daughter, and that's why I'm just like "uuuuggggghhhh, why?????" lol. Although in this game there is a character that isn't related to the MC that I find physically attractive, Mira, so I'm going to keep playing it, rejecting the daughters everytime the game tries to force them onto the MC (it REALLY wants you to say yes, lol, everytime I say no, the character will get into some internal monologue about why it should be ok and will say yes next time, lol, then I say no again...), and hope it has romance options with Mira...

Totally agree. There's a vocal, tiny minority out there that just screams to have it inserted into things... and it becomes obvious that they don't care about story. I feel like -at that point- just look at ANYTHING and pretend it's your sister and just leave us the hell alone. It hasn't gotten that bad yet, but the Pale Carnations community is dealing with people trying to argue for the right to fuck the MC's mom, and we're like, dude... it just doesn't make any sense to the story. The MC doesn't look at her that way. The dev is active in the thread and is rejecting the idea. I just don't like people messing with artistic visions. Sometimes, there's too much "access" that shapes mainstream creations. It shows up in our communities here a lot.

Now when it is baked into the novel, like here, or -in a surprisingly good story- like in A Petal Among Thorns (the developing sequel is really good too), it's really up to the discerning reader to decide if it feels "believable" enough to push on... assuming they're not explicitly there for the incest tag.

It appears that you are completely turned off by the idea of it, and I completely understand that. Because while I am open to a good story, it does absolutely nothing for me as far as the "taboo" or whatever excuse most people use that are here for that. I think, for me, the reasoning I've touched on is why I can usually tolerate it. I generally have to "transport" myself in my fantasy while reading something like this. I can't read something with incest in it where the world hasn't been transformed or, at minimum, there aren't huge mitigating circumstances like a coma... or 20 years apart. Or witness protection... like in Bare Witness... there's a character in that named Hannah that is basically the best dirty talker in any of these VNs lol... and the MC's cousin is sweet and just always had a crush or whatever, but Hannah walks in on her giving the MC fellatio and open-mindedly (harem game, MASH all the way lol) accepts it and starts talking... my point is, I wasn't even thinking about the cousin thing until she says something in the MC's ear and triggered his "arrival" and I thought, "okay, now THAT'S hot". And then I could understand many of the incest "enjoyers" chasing that runner's high of that. There are moments where there's an interesting scenario, social mores change, or someone just says something dirty and I'm on board for the writing. Otherwise, like you, I'll pass. I uninstall if it just reads like a bad incest video on PornHub or something. No thanks.

I think most people would agree with you that they don't want every single decent game out there to be "special service" for something they don't like. I do wish more people were accepting (not meaning you in any way, moreso the "incest or I'm unsupporting your Patreon" crowd) of slightly alternate stories. My very favorite is Pale Carnations and I have absolutely ZERO interest in BDSM. I just can't look away at Edwin's plight lol. I keep checking in on Radiant hoping for signs of continuing work because I love the art and the character interplay is heartwarming. I hope you find more of what you're looking for, too!

Cheers, mate.
Yah man, thanks for the well-thought-out response, I'll take a look at A Petal Among Thorns. And yes, for me it's actively a turn-off. Like it's not simply something I don't prefer, I really dislike the idea. I actually have a very strong parental instinct, I'm not yet a father, but I have a very protective nature about me, so for me the mere concept of being sexual with someone that's like a daughter to me is pretty repulsive to be really honest. Again, no offense to anyone who disagrees with me, I can only speak for myself!

And what you mention about the cousin thing, while I don't prefer that either, I don't really find that actually "repulsive" since you generally don't grow up with a cousin (like you do with a sister) and you shouldn't have a parental/protective obligation to a cousin (like you do with a daughter). So a cousin relationship is more of a "technical" relationship, but in terms of like if society had no say in it, I don't see anything inherently repulsive about the idea. I personally am still not into that, but I don't have the strong feelings about it like I do with immediate family like mother, daughter, and sister.

The one thing I kind of don't like about this game so far besides that though, is that it really does feel like the story almost revolves around the assumption that you will choose to become romantic with your daughters. Like I've tried turning them down over and over, and the game keeps on forcing these situations onto the MC and between the choices the internal monologues always consist of the MC rationalizing to himself that it's ok to have a sexual relationship with his daughters. Like, yes, I actually understand that if the story revolves around that, it would be much more difficult for the writer to keep a cohesive story moving forward without that element. But surprisingly I found a game that seems to do this very well.

There is a game called Our Red String. There's no incest or anything in there, but the game really intends for the two main characters to get together, Ian and Lena. In fact, the game actually switches control between those two characters. And while in the beginning few chapters you really do have to try really hard to avoid them two getting together, it's possible. Now, it's not incest, so that's not the reason why I didn't want them to get together. It's because I was REALLY interested in one of the other girls, Holly. And that game is less of a Harem game, the main characters are more-or-less loyal (excluding lesbian scenes and such) once you get them together. So if I wanted to get with Holly, I had to basically avoid ANY sex scenes with Lena. But once I basically got past the first few chapters and got with Holly, the game stopped putting in those situations where it tries to coerce Ian and Lena together, and now Ian and Holly are together and Ian and Lena actually has this BEAUTIFUL platonic friendship. I'm so happy I decided to go that route, I am REALLY enjoying that aspect of it.

Anyway, I'm rambling on, but give Our Red String a try, the writing in that game is phenomenal.
 

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Hm, thanks for the answer. And yes I get that you wouldn't want a story about a guy that goes to work every day and nothing special happens, haha. But like, even if I'm watching a movie, yes I am on the same page as you in that obviously the circumstances are more interesting if it's not something that's currently happening, but at the same time the reason why I question these things is that for me I still would only like the characters if I could relate to them.
Yeah, that's real... like in Pale Carnations I find attraction to Hana and Mina because although they aren't my type, I question things in these novels too... for Hana, she's actively disgusted (yet trapped) by what she's participating in and is looking for a friend that can relate to her, and Mina is playing "the game of life" if only to feel normal, because she's not sure if she's feeling anything at all... that's the crux of the MC's journey to decide if he's actually a deviant sociopath or not... can he really change for the better for his mother's sake? Is he showing a facade over a sadist personality? I love shit like that even though I'm not really into the particular fetish content... and yet it sometimes will have its moment where I think, "ahhhh, yeah that might do it on my birthday once a year or something." XD
lol

But in terms of an adult game, it has to "turn you on" to put it crudely. And for me I still feel like it needs to be something that actually, well, turns you on... So I guess my question really is why it turns you on if it's not something you actually want to do? I mean, you don't have to answer, I'm just clarifying why I ask these things. Like I've always said, I can only speak for myself and I'm not telling anyone else what they should or should not like. The only thing that frustrates me is merely that I don't like it (as in it's actually a turn off), so it limits my game choices when so many of them have it that have characters that fit what I'm looking for physically.
Fair question... for me one of the huge turn-offs is hidden camera content and sleep-based sexual assault. I find it abhorrent. The only way I will decide to let something happen like that is if it's not blatantly for my benefit as a reader. If its not gratuitous like a lot of those time/date sandbox games, then I'll sigh nice and hard and try to go in a different direction. The MC in Personal Assistant has control issues that you can choose to turn into a corruptive influence or allow him to loosen his grasp a little... the scene at the beginning when he spies on the woman and shuts off the wifi so she won't call her mother and sister seemed in character for him at that moment so I thought, "Okay. I wouldn't do that but I guess this guy would," but if it becomes something later on where I have the choice to use cameras and feel her up at night, no thanks.

To answer your question, for me, I find commonality in the human condition. I don't like cuck porn, but technically all the straight porn I watch has a dick in it that's not mine, I just ignore it, like our brain ignores our nose from our eyesight. I see an incest tag but lots of other cool shit and I'll install, look at what else is going on, and if it's a stupid "landlady" scenario or the guy is just looking to get off on his mom, I'm usually going to delete the VN. But, if it's got gorgeous renders, a believable explanation or a lewd patch that gets rid of the "landlady" bullshit, then I might give it a chance... I'd rather read "mom" instead of "landlady", but if step-whatever" makes sense, then I just deal with that... the incest tag will be like the nose on my face that I rarely actually see :p

As I've mentioned, there's a lot I'm not into, but I have growled a, let's say, more passionate intonation of, "good girl," into my partner's ear and she would practically wet the bed. But other times with other partners, and yes, more than once, that has either ground a good night to halt or prompted a post-coitus correction... in ways that made me feel that there was an abusive history I wasn't going to be privy to... but the lesson was that I was not to say it again. Sometimes, in the moment, we'll say or do something and it's a turn-on because of the surprise... then, in a VN, if I'm feeling frisky while I'm reading, and someone says some wild shit about where they want the MC to finish or some fetish, I might not be a card-carrying deviant of a particular fetish, but I'll be goddamned if that wasn't enough at that moment to tip me over... every now and then, and surprisingly. I guess it comes with the confidence that I know I don't need it to finish, and it's not something I'm actively looking for IRL.

Which is another thing that I know is a minority opinion. I honestly do not like voluptuous women, like with the huge ass, huge breasts, etc... And the majority of h-games feature people with really exaggerated features like that. Yes, I totally understand, it's their dream body type, it's fantasy, so they can exaggerate to their heart's desires, I get it. But so that already limits my choices.
Agreed again! I've dated some large breasted women over the years but a good B cup or less usually still means a gorgeous face, thick where it counts, and with a volleyball body. Sally from BaDIK, the tiny tutor from The Interim Domain, and Lyriel from A House in The Rift are all amazing... and Hana and Mina from Pale Carnations are in C/D territory and still beautiful... but then there's also Ms. Hill and the car lady from Summer Heat, and let me tell you... holy shit. Those two are jaw-droppingly buxom, but not in the cartoonish way like Jill from BaDIK... they look... normal otherwise lol. They are amazing. I wish more women in reality would realize that they haven't quite perfected breast augmentation, and there are plenty of men out there that -even though their jaw might drop looking at Christina Hendricks- doesn't mean they want their girl to emulate that or that they believe their girl doesn't have enough. There's a reason it's a secondary sex characteristic lol

A Petal Among Thorns is going to actively upset your sensibilities at first, but putting yourself in the shoes of someone that greatly loves their daughters but has been separated from them in such a difficult situation might allow you to compartmentalize the story a bit. It helps that the father isn't the one initiating this. You get in his head, you see what he's thinking, you realize he's trying hard af not to give in, you see the rules he tries to make (and in the sequel, you see an explanation for why the daughter is acting this way and it gets interesting enough, at least for me, to continue). There's also a pair of characters that render a different take on these sort of relationships and their situation is very singular in nature... let's just say that this novel doesn't give off the "well everyone is doing it so why not us" vibe you get from Dating My Daughter (I slogged through it and will never pick it up again). In A Petal Among Thorns, there's a fierce love that seems more than just carnal in a way that seems rooted in a singular desperation and fear of loss -like nothing you or I would ever consider- that they eventually express physically. I think it comes with life-upending situations that we're lucky enough not to deal with (knock on wood). There's a certain beauty to that, so I don't feel so bad just enjoying the absolutely gorgeous LIs lol... I never feel like, "oh, well this is an option for me and my future kids and here's the handbook," y'know?

The one thing I kind of don't like about this game so far besides that though, is that it really does feel like the story almost revolves around the assumption that you will choose to become romantic with your daughters.

Anyway, I'm rambling on, but give Our Red String a try, the writing in that game is phenomenal.
Yeah, I get the impression that the daughter relationships are more kinetic here in Radiant so it's not as interesting as it could be. While I do really enjoy reading it, I would like to have seen more personal drama within the MC where he has to make choices between starting relationships sexually with his girls or the other LIs... right now it seems like the only real struggle is between the girls for his attention. While that's fun to a point, and I get the author's intention to follow through with that (I really like Maddison because I've dated women that put up that front but they crave a loving embrace but need to understand discipline to some extent), and I like the idea of growing together that way... earning her loyalty... the difference is that you do that without sex with your kids IRL lol... in reality, you're doing it with someone else's grown daughter, not your own!

Our Red String has been in my backlog a while... it's female protag and lesbian, right? Once again, not my thing, but I was gonna try it anyway. How else do we learn to understand each other? I guess its par for my course :D

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Hm, thanks for the answer. And yes I get that you wouldn't want a story about a guy that goes to work every day and nothing special happens, haha. But like, even if I'm watching a movie, yes I am on the same page as you in that obviously the circumstances are more interesting if it's not something that's currently happening, but at the same time the reason why I question these things is that for me I still would only like the characters if I could relate to them. So like if the main character is just an a-hole and just treats everyone like crap but still feels entitled to everything, yah, I have no interest in watching a movie about this person... unless something bad happens to him, lol. But I guess I get your point.

But in terms of an adult game, it has to "turn you on" to put it crudely. And for me I still feel like it needs to be something that actually, well, turns you on... So I guess my question really is why it turns you on if it's not something you actually want to do? I mean, you don't have to answer, I'm just clarifying why I ask these things. Like I've always said, I can only speak for myself and I'm not telling anyone else what they should or should not like. The only thing that frustrates me is merely that I don't like it (as in it's actually a turn off), so it limits my game choices when so many of them have it that have characters that fit what I'm looking for physically.

Which is another thing that I know is a minority opinion. I honestly do not like voluptuous women, like with the huge ass, huge breasts, etc... And the majority of h-games feature people with really exaggerated features like that. Yes, I totally understand, it's their dream body type, it's fantasy, so they can exaggerate to their heart's desires, I get it. But so that already limits my choices. I like slender/fit women and for me, that also means proportionally smaller breasts and ass looks better for that body type (again, just MY personal preference, no offense to anyone who disagrees!!). And so finding H-games with characters like that, like a good chunk of them (in this game Olivia would be that person who drew me in from the screenshots from another website, itch) they turn out to be the MC's sister or daughter, and that's why I'm just like "uuuuggggghhhh, why?????" lol. Although in this game there is a character that isn't related to the MC that I find physically attractive, Mira, so I'm going to keep playing it, rejecting the daughters everytime the game tries to force them onto the MC (it REALLY wants you to say yes, lol, everytime I say no, the character will get into some internal monologue about why it should be ok and will say yes next time, lol, then I say no again...), and hope it has romance options with Mira...



Yah man, thanks for the well-thought-out response, I'll take a look at A Petal Among Thorns. And yes, for me it's actively a turn-off. Like it's not simply something I don't prefer, I really dislike the idea. I actually have a very strong parental instinct, I'm not yet a father, but I have a very protective nature about me, so for me the mere concept of being sexual with someone that's like a daughter to me is pretty repulsive to be really honest. Again, no offense to anyone who disagrees with me, I can only speak for myself!

And what you mention about the cousin thing, while I don't prefer that either, I don't really find that actually "repulsive" since you generally don't grow up with a cousin (like you do with a sister) and you shouldn't have a parental/protective obligation to a cousin (like you do with a daughter). So a cousin relationship is more of a "technical" relationship, but in terms of like if society had no say in it, I don't see anything inherently repulsive about the idea. I personally am still not into that, but I don't have the strong feelings about it like I do with immediate family like mother, daughter, and sister.

The one thing I kind of don't like about this game so far besides that though, is that it really does feel like the story almost revolves around the assumption that you will choose to become romantic with your daughters. Like I've tried turning them down over and over, and the game keeps on forcing these situations onto the MC and between the choices the internal monologues always consist of the MC rationalizing to himself that it's ok to have a sexual relationship with his daughters. Like, yes, I actually understand that if the story revolves around that, it would be much more difficult for the writer to keep a cohesive story moving forward without that element. But surprisingly I found a game that seems to do this very well.

There is a game called Our Red String. There's no incest or anything in there, but the game really intends for the two main characters to get together, Ian and Lena. In fact, the game actually switches control between those two characters. And while in the beginning few chapters you really do have to try really hard to avoid them two getting together, it's possible. Now, it's not incest, so that's not the reason why I didn't want them to get together. It's because I was REALLY interested in one of the other girls, Holly. And that game is less of a Harem game, the main characters are more-or-less loyal (excluding lesbian scenes and such) once you get them together. So if I wanted to get with Holly, I had to basically avoid ANY sex scenes with Lena. But once I basically got past the first few chapters and got with Holly, the game stopped putting in those situations where it tries to coerce Ian and Lena together, and now Ian and Holly are together and Ian and Lena actually has this BEAUTIFUL platonic friendship. I'm so happy I decided to go that route, I am REALLY enjoying that aspect of it.

Anyway, I'm rambling on, but give Our Red String a try, the writing in that game is phenomenal.
ummm I understand your point I suppose, but it will be different for each person, incest as a fantasy really turns me on, it was something I discovered recently, but thinking about doing it with a relative in real life?? no way, the idea just seems repulsive to me, but in fantasy? oh yeah give me everything you got. So I guess some of us separate reality from fiction and others don't and that's fine.

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Yeah, that's real... like in Pale Carnations I find attraction to Hana and Mina because although they aren't my type, I question things in these novels too... for Hana, she's actively disgusted (yet trapped) by what she's participating in and is looking for a friend that can relate to her, and Mina is playing "the game of life" if only to feel normal, because she's not sure if she's feeling anything at all... that's the crux of the MC's journey to decide if he's actually a deviant sociopath or not... can he really change for the better for his mother's sake? Is he showing a facade over a sadist personality? I love shit like that even though I'm not really into the particular fetish content... and yet it sometimes will have its moment where I think, "ahhhh, yeah that might do it on my birthday once a year or something." XD
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Hm, yah I guess if the premise is interesting enough I could understand why you'd want to play through it just for the experience or to satisfy your curiosity on how it could turn out.

Fair question... for me one of the huge turn-offs is hidden camera content and sleep-based sexual assault. I find it abhorrent. The only way I will decide to let something happen like that is if it's not blatantly for my benefit as a reader. If its not gratuitous like a lot of those time/date sandbox games, then I'll sigh nice and hard and try to go in a different direction. The MC in Personal Assistant has control issues that you can choose to turn into a corruptive influence or allow him to loosen his grasp a little... the scene at the beginning when he spies on the woman and shuts off the wifi so she won't call her mother and sister seemed in character for him at that moment so I thought, "Okay. I wouldn't do that but I guess this guy would," but if it becomes something later on where I have the choice to use cameras and feel her up at night, no thanks.
R@pe or sexual assault in general is another one of my turn-offs, and another thing that at least WAS part of a lot of Japanese adult media. I'm not sure if it still is or not, hopefully not... But if a game glorifies that, then yah, another game I will just uninstall...


To answer your question, for me, I find commonality in the human condition. I don't like cuck porn, but technically all the straight porn I watch has a dick in it that's not mine, I just ignore it, like our brain ignores our nose from our eyesight. I see an incest tag but lots of other cool shit and I'll install, look at what else is going on, and if it's a stupid "landlady" scenario or the guy is just looking to get off on his mom, I'm usually going to delete the VN. But, if it's got gorgeous renders, a believable explanation or a lewd patch that gets rid of the "landlady" bullshit, then I might give it a chance... I'd rather read "mom" instead of "landlady", but if step-whatever" makes sense, then I just deal with that... the incest tag will be like the nose on my face that I rarely actually see :p

As I've mentioned, there's a lot I'm not into, but I have growled a, let's say, more passionate intonation of, "good girl," into my partner's ear and she would practically wet the bed. But other times with other partners, and yes, more than once, that has either ground a good night to halt or prompted a post-coitus correction... in ways that made me feel that there was an abusive history I wasn't going to be privy to... but the lesson was that I was not to say it again. Sometimes, in the moment, we'll say or do something and it's a turn-on because of the surprise... then, in a VN, if I'm feeling frisky while I'm reading, and someone says some wild shit about where they want the MC to finish or some fetish, I might not be a card-carrying deviant of a particular fetish, but I'll be goddamned if that wasn't enough at that moment to tip me over... every now and then, and surprisingly. I guess it comes with the confidence that I know I don't need it to finish, and it's not something I'm actively looking for IRL.
LOL, yes, this game and the "wards" and "caretaker" thing is kind of annoying. Like we know what you're trying to get at but is afraid to straight up say. The facade is kind of embarrassing like who do they think they're fooling with that? :ROFLMAO:

And with porn, I guess it's why I prefer POV porn. And actually now that I have a VR headset, I pretty much only watch things exclusively on that for the immersion. But yah, I get what you mean about how it's basically like NTR since you're watching someone else do it. I mean, I don't prefer NTR content, but don't have strong feelings about it one way or another. But in terms of porn, I guess I'm the kind that would just try to pretend I'm that person rather than I'm watching them.

Agreed again! I've dated some large breasted women over the years but a good B cup or less usually still means a gorgeous face, thick where it counts, and with a volleyball body. Sally from BaDIK, the tiny tutor from The Interim Domain, and Lyriel from A House in The Rift are all amazing... and Hana and Mina from Pale Carnations are in C/D territory and still beautiful... but then there's also Ms. Hill and the car lady from Summer Heat, and let me tell you... holy shit. Those two are jaw-droppingly buxom, but not in the cartoonish way like Jill from BaDIK... they look... normal otherwise lol. They are amazing. I wish more women in reality would realize that they haven't quite perfected breast augmentation, and there are plenty of men out there that -even though their jaw might drop looking at Christina Hendricks- doesn't mean they want their girl to emulate that or that they believe their girl doesn't have enough. There's a reason it's a secondary sex characteristic lol
Yah, for me extremely large breasts just seems... sloppy for me... Like you know when someone is obese and they have fatty bags hanging down off their arms and stuff? I don't mean to offend anyone, I know we all can't have the bodies of Greek Gods, but I'm just being honest about what turns me off, I can't really control it, but when I see really large breasts that move around that much in my mind it's almost no different than a big fatty bag hanging off anything else, and I just can't get myself to be attracted to anyone who has... slop...

A Petal Among Thorns is going to actively upset your sensibilities at first, but putting yourself in the shoes of someone that greatly loves their daughters but has been separated from them in such a difficult situation might allow you to compartmentalize the story a bit. It helps that the father isn't the one initiating this. You get in his head, you see what he's thinking, you realize he's trying hard af not to give in, you see the rules he tries to make (and in the sequel, you see an explanation for why the daughter is acting this way and it gets interesting enough, at least for me, to continue). There's also a pair of characters that render a different take on these sort of relationships and their situation is very singular in nature... let's just say that this novel doesn't give off the "well everyone is doing it so why not us" vibe you get from Dating My Daughter (I slogged through it and will never pick it up again). In A Petal Among Thorns, there's a fierce love that seems more than just carnal in a way that seems rooted in a singular desperation and fear of loss -like nothing you or I would ever consider- that they eventually express physically. I think it comes with life-upending situations that we're lucky enough not to deal with (knock on wood). There's a certain beauty to that, so I don't feel so bad just enjoying the absolutely gorgeous LIs lol... I never feel like, "oh, well this is an option for me and my future kids and here's the handbook," y'know?
Yes, definitely a good story trumps everything else. And I would probably appreciate that it has a deeper story. But my mind sometimes can't avoid the meta and I just think about despite the complex story and relationship the writer has made, that it's all just a convoluted excuse to satisfy that father/daughter fetish in an adult game. And in that way I would probably still not like playing through that if that was the only choice... But again, just my own personal things, not saying you should feel the same way.

Yeah, I get the impression that the daughter relationships are more kinetic here in Radiant so it's not as interesting as it could be. While I do really enjoy reading it, I would like to have seen more personal drama within the MC where he has to make choices between starting relationships sexually with his girls or the other LIs... right now it seems like the only real struggle is between the girls for his attention. While that's fun to a point, and I get the author's intention to follow through with that (I really like Maddison because I've dated women that put up that front but they crave a loving embrace but need to understand discipline to some extent), and I like the idea of growing together that way... earning her loyalty... the difference is that you do that without sex with your kids IRL lol... in reality, you're doing it with someone else's grown daughter, not your own!
The whole struggle for attention thing, it's something that's present in a lot of adult games with multiple potential partners. To me it just comes off as the writer writing his fantasy of having every woman chase after you. And that's another thing that I roll my eyes on a lot in Radiant, how every character just melts all over MC the moment they see him. Like the waitress, the daughters, Brook, Mira, literally every female. And it seems even the mother of the person MC kills will do it, but for once it isn't instant, although I'm sure the writer wanted it to be but then realized just how EXTRA ridiculous that would have been. And like the wife of the neighbor just randomly calling him handsome on their first meeting, like seriously? I don't know, I guess a lot of lonely guys would love to fantasize that about themselves but to me it just makes me roll my eyes when games do this, lol.

Our Red String has been in my backlog a while... it's female protag and lesbian, right? Once again, not my thing, but I was gonna try it anyway. How else do we learn to understand each other? I guess its par for my course :D

Cheers!
No, you alternate between two MCs. Ian and Lena. So you CAN make Lena into a lesbian, but the game's primary relationship is actually between Ian and Lena. And the point of alternating characters that end up together I guess is to show they both have choices they make that can either help or hurt the relationship. However, the really beautiful thing about that game is that even though the game was intended to have Ian and Lena together, if you wanted to, you could make it so those two don't have ANY romantic relationship so that Ian and Lena can pursue other choices. It's not a harem game, so in the beginning they can fool around with others before Ian and Lena become "official" and after they become official I think they can cheat as well, but it's never like a situation where they all know of the others and it's ok, of course most of those are written by men, so it's just like my last point of the male fantasy of how every woman melts upon seeing you, it's one of those male fantasies of having all the women they want and they are all somehow ok with it so there's no drama. But yes, so the writer of ORS went to the length of writing dialogue and paths that ARE MEANINGFUL even if you deviate completely from her intended plan to have Ian and Lena as the central relationship. Like I've said, that's what I did, and it never regresses back to a reliance on them two together. It actually almost seems like it's meant to be. Lena and Ian in my playthrough have this beautiful platonic friendship while Ian is with another character that I really liked. So a lot of work went into that game if she actually wrote all new lines and new scenes specifically for all the alternative paths you could take.

But I would have to say the character-building in that game is really great. It spends a lot of time really building on the characters before you start having "sexy time" with them. So it's also a bit more believable in that sense. And even the friendships between the guys in that game are enjoyable to play, and there are a lot of choices that affect your platonic relationships as well. Anyway, just like before, I'm rambling on again, haha.
 
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