I had some similar reactions to the post. First off, he said he likes seeing girl/girl encounters, if he is given a choice, yet if it is automatic, he doesn't like them. The reaction to not wanting to deal with any women who have been raped in their past. Good luck with that.
That circle of women is
far too large a part of the population.
That reminds me of another game. When people found out that a secret non-canonical scene (presumably from before the two got involved) involving a current love interest getting caught shoplifting and then being blackmailed into giving oral sex, there was an outcry of "NTR!" rather than being increasing concern and compassion toward the character.