Katelyn, Clawyn, and Ruksana are the ones avaible for most of the game. The rest of the non–dick girls are end–game'ish.
Regarding the "adventurous" ladies. When they tell how they love and can't live without the MC etc. only nextly they fuck the nearest beast or dude isn't exactly "reaslistic" either for the player. Should I have a child with a woman and she's jumping stick on everyone else, she shouldn't expect me to be there for her. Then she can do her own thing for all the things in the world for all I care. Living in the same house/castle is definitely not on the agenda. Most men don't like "sharing" women. "Ohh but it's okay that the MC fucks everyone else?" yeah it's a porn game, not real life. Having the MC be "totally fine" with being a cuck is quite immersion breaking. Feeling shitty can be part of a game or used in powerful situation, having it be the norm and expect people to be fine with it is something else. These aspects are some of the things that make it "not my kind of game". People share their experiences and thoughts... not wanting to feel shitty shouldn't be weird. I don't like this and other people doesn't either, that's that.