I'm pretty sure the game would have a name a bit, well, more tasteful? if it could be avoidable: There's a big difference between naming the game "Your Wife is Forced to Service Other Men" and naming it "Your Wife Enjoys Cucking You With 40 Men"
Most of the game descriptions attempt to give you a certain sense of interest-building idea of what you'll play. It doesn't really mean you'll be able to avoid the issue, just that you'll play a man trying to do so. For you, the player, it's pretty much a rhetorical question
That's a great ass-pull BS to justify the game. I approve!!
Now, in (mostly) all seriousness: As somebody that actually enjoys the almost opposite of what you said (I hate the humiliation part of NTR, specially if it's the malicious kind, instead of an actual cuckold fetish), I still find a game that can straddle both the NTR-stealing fetish, the Vanilla-lovey-dovey one, and the middle ground where you struggle between the two, really stimulating for a similar reason: If I know that the issue was resolvable, and there's no actual maliciousness in the cuckolding, I can enjoy every resolution as just an aspect of a relationship going down (or up)