At what point are you finding Lilia now? I saw a comment on Mav's Discord to the effect she doesn't show up until after the end of Act I (Civil War) instead of right off the bat. I just checked again on my current game and she for sure isn't available while doing the loan/pre-Civil War arc.
I was wondering why I had no "surroundings" button in my new save despite being in the right place, thanks for digging that up.
Also, yeah, I decided to finally update the game last night to check out all the revamps I've missed. Do I need to do something special to unlock the non-sexual gold jobs that are supposed to be available now, or is that another time-gated thing? I made Daisy a maid for the roleplay hell of it, but I can't figure out how to get to use her job bonus.
EDIT: Oh, okay, so the bed icon that used to be "rest" is now the generic "service" button. That's what messed me up, I never even thought to hover over that, lol.