Yes, but not just by projecting yourself onto protagonist. That's actually very low quality of storytelling, to make protagonist easy to self insert building emotional link between dummy and reader. The story suppose to make you feel, not your attachment to protagonist.
Also, those ballistic anti-NTR people don't like cheating as a concept in game? No, they dont like feeling cucked. They are projecting themselves onto protagonist so hard, like they hate their own existence or something.
When did self-insert become such a derogatory term?
You're playing a game.
You as the captain, are choosing who to talk to in the date segments.
You as the captain, are making decisions on where the Mary Celeste will go.
You as the captain, are the one making the ship move in the space arcade sections.
You as the captain, are the one choosing who gets deployed in the grid-based combat sections.
Obviously people who are put in the captain's shoes will feel like the captain.
Obviously people who feel like the captain will want that character to embody a little bit of them. So yeah, if the girls they choose to fuck go fuck other people, they'll feel sour. Is this really hard to understand? The way they expressed themselves is dumb I agree but where is the empathy for them?
Obviously their reaction and rage and calling it NTR and being spaz's is no good. It's not that it's NTR. They were just too embarrassed or dumb to say they want exclusive girls.
Hate their own existence?
Bro what?
NTR games are literally designed like this btw. They do their best to make it so the player feels like the male protagonist and then... have the girls sleep with other guys, because it wouldn't work if the players couldn't feel like the male protagonist but could feel like other characters. The difference is that the girls who sleep around are stolen. The protagonist never gets another chance at them and he can only watch and masturbate so
technically... Subverse is not NTR. It's just slutty girls.
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EDIT: Also going to add.
It is normal to go through the highs and lows of fictional characters.
If a fictional character dies, it's ok to feel sad. Media is designed to make you feel things
If a fictional character succeeds in an otherwise hopeless situation, it's ok to feel proud and hype. Media is designed to make you feel things.
If a fictional character you choose to fuck then goes and fucks someone else, it's ok to feel sour. Media is designed to make you feel things.
Like... I get it right. You have a tolerance. Watched a ton of porn, and don't really emotionally attach yourself to any events that happen. But come on. Other people are. Their feelings are valid too even if they aren't expressing themselves correctly