Stand your ground, sir! Assomeone who lived with a pregnant wife thru 3 kids--- that shit ain't sexy. Stretched out, hormonal, grumpy, sleep-deprived, sweaty-- yes. Sexy-- no. I'd be thrilled if you keep that stuff out of your game.
bro i dunno what to say man but eh.. for future reference i'd stick to saying you dislike pregnancy and/or lactation content whitout going into personal details
i might be misinterpreting your reason for disliking it but what i can get out off it is you hate the state off your wife's sexual appeal during pregnancy ,which you yourself are at least partly responsible for by getting her pregnant in the first place
good is that AVN's are fictional so most off the issue's you stated whit pregnancy will not be represented at most you'll see a baby belly
all in all the 2 mentioned tags are more Niche tags in my eyes
these aren't something i actively want or don't want in avn's myself
if i'd have to say yes or no, it would be yes pregnancy because happy family endings are decent if written well ,and no to lactation because while it can be entertaining sometimes,generically it comes down to the mc becoming some kinda suckling baby sucking on tits
i'd suggest
Crispy Chicken to make a poll about it (ofcourse giving patreon supporters etc. more weight then a public poll done here on this site) and if it does make it into the game make it avoidable (which sadly will double the workload needed to be done if not more)