Well I guess you have never suffered the loss of a close loved one like this. I lost a child and it wasn't until months later I actually broke down and couldn't work. It was hell being on cruise and it hit me like a bunch of lead bricks. I didn't have what you would call a comfort, the rest of that short cruise I was a zombie, barely doing anything but what I needed to do just to keep from getting in trouble. didn't talk much didn't do much at all. It hits everyone in different ways and depression that sets in from something like this can be problematic, my depression still hits from time to time from another issue, and I think I need to let someone know I didn't do something, and I just don't do it because I distracted myself and forgot to do it, this further compounds things because now I have to make it sound like an excuse etc. so try to understand that we don't have a window into Nverjos' feelings and happenings, but we do have the ability to stop making demands till Nverjos is better enough to communicate.
That being said, nothing is saying don't remove your funding if you want to but only don't make it a requirement that they communicate to you and tell you everything or even something that isn't really true. If you donate, by all means you can control that, and stop making it sound so doom and gloom for this project. GRRR
