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Filipis

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agreed when I think of sharing I think the MC being okay with his GF/wife having sex with others and knows about it which can include him or doesn't. Tho generally to me it doesn't include the MC unless it's a group sex or swinging scene.
Precisely this.

If the protagonist (MC) allows/encourages their SO to have a sexual relationship with a third party, then that is simply sharing/netorase. They can be actively or passively involved in partner selection, but only passively in their sexual activities.

If the protagonist (MC) participates in any sexual relationship with the explicit agreement and either active or passive involvement from their SO, then that would be swinging. MC and their SO don't necessarily have to participate in sexual activities with the same people, though most of the time they will - in a classic swinging scenario.
 

Filipis

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So maybe we could even agree on "active sharing" where the boyfriend actively puts his girlfriend on the second male's dick and "passive sharing" where the girlfriend has sex on her own with her friend just present or even farer away (but still loving to hear her story). In this, Netorase seems a bit more on the passive-sharing-side whereas usually, sharing is more on the active-sharing-side.

But yeah, as you stated it, f95 seems to use them synonymiously.
I hereby officially submit the official definitions of:
  • Netorase: The protagonist is actively or passively involved in partner selection for their SO, but only passively involved in any sexual activities of their SO as a result.
  • Sharing: The protagonist is actively or passively involved in partner selection for their SO, and can also actively or passively participate in any sexual activities of their SO as a result.
  • Swinging: The protagonist and their SO are both actively or passively involved in partner selection for each other, and can also actively or passively participate in each other's sexual activities as a result.
I think we have reached a consensus on this topic, if maybe F95 moderators wouldn't mind having a site-wide poll for these definitions? :oops:
 

sagerock820

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There will never be a consensus on the definitions. :LOL: Everyone has their own versions. I've seen it over and over.
 

Filipis

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Filipis : Just one more question: SO stands for?

Oh, and you forgot Netorare in your final post.
SO stands for Significant Other, most commonly referring to a person's romantic partner. The word partner by itself doesn't have that emotional intimacy that a romantic partner usually represents, which is why I specifically chose to use the word SO instead.

As for Netorare, I guess I thought we already mostly agree on the definition, even if it is only unofficially (your partner is eventually stolen from you by a third-party).
 
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Filipis

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There will never be a consensus on the definitions. :LOL: Everyone has their own versions. I've seen it over and over.
Which is exactly why it needs an agreed upon definition.
Don't you think the reason why everyone has their own is because the official one is too lacking or people are just not quite sure what it means? Hence the need for a definition that people can easily find, especially on this site.

Where's that tag system rework that F95 talked about?
 
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Which is exactly why it needs an agreed upon definition.
Don't you think the reason why everyone has their own is because the official one is too lacking or people are just not quite sure what it means? Hence the need for a definition that people can easily find, especially on this site.

Where's that tag system rework that F95 talked about?
Okay im just putting everything under the Umbrella of NTR for this post even tho some of it isn't technically but others consider it as such. I think the reason it has a different definition is because allowing and being okay with a GF or wife to have sex with other people is a bit taboo for some people. While some are okay with group sex / swinging others aren't but might be okay with sharing if told about it but don't want to watch. Etc Etc point is everyone has different levels of what they are okay with which is why I think there is no set in stone definition along with people classifying certain things as NTR when they aren't because they consider it more on the NTR side of things than what it really is.

but this is starting to be getting a bit off topic just wanted to share how I see things

But even for a game that has NTR elements to it im glad we can pretty decent choices so far to skip things we don't want to see for the most part. Because of that I dont think defining it is a big deal for this game really since we get lots of choices what we are okay and aren't okay with. But it's would be good info for people not aware.
 
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TomUK

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but we can all agree Kathryn is hot as hell and would want to do lots of naughty things with her
Totally, just did another run-through with her taking every 'naughty' decision and Luke getting her to do everything, including giving Nate a BJ.
 

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Totally, just did another run-through with her taking every 'naughty' decision and Luke getting her to do everything, including giving Nate a BJ.
Yeah, that was an awesome scene. It's just a shame I couldn't give her a passionate french kiss while she had cum in her mouth.

Oh well maybe next time.
 
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Kieron1998

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I hereby officially submit the official definitions of:
  • Netorase: The protagonist is actively or passively involved in partner selection for their SO, but only passively involved in any sexual activities of their SO as a result.
  • Sharing: The protagonist is actively or passively involved in partner selection for their SO, and can also actively or passively participate in any sexual activities of their SO as a result.
  • Swinging: The protagonist and their SO are both actively or passively involved in partner selection for each other, and can also actively or passively participate in each other's sexual activities as a result.
I think we have reached a consensus on this topic, if maybe F95 moderators wouldn't mind having a site-wide poll for these definitions? :oops:
Useful information for someone like me who thought netorase is swinging/sharing. I even thought swinging and sharing are one at the same. Thanks.
 

Filipis

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Useful information for someone like me who thought netorase is swinging/sharing. I even thought swinging and sharing are one at the same. Thanks.
Glad to hear it.

Just think of swinging as both you and your wife/gf getting laid, while sharing is letting just your wife/gf get laid with other dudes.
 
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sagerock820

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This is going to be discussed ad nauseam forever. And we are getting off topic. Mods will probably trim this thread down soon.
 

atlas114

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Not sure if it’ll be covered in Chapter 5, but there could be a hot scene where Kathryn agrees to go on a date (without Luke) to one of the guys she gives her number out to (maybe the guy that was in jail). She’d tell Luke about the date and ask for her permitted and in total depraved fashion we say of course and we’ll help pick out your date night outfit; just text back pics of the night.

Two pov’s- one where Luke gets a steady stream of selfies before and during the dinner date, then the frequency slows down to nothing before she returns home.

The second pov is of Kathryn actually during the date and sending Luke naughty pics and video of her date.

I remember seeing a porn scene like this (like a hotwife scenario) and think Kathryn fits the bill here.
 

Joshy92

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Not sure if it’ll be covered in Chapter 5, but there could be a hot scene where Kathryn agrees to go on a date (without Luke) to one of the guys she gives her number out to (maybe the guy that was in jail). She’d tell Luke about the date and ask for her permitted and in total depraved fashion we say of course and we’ll help pick out your date night outfit; just text back pics of the night.

Two pov’s- one where Luke gets a steady stream of selfies before and during the dinner date, then the frequency slows down to nothing before she returns home.

The second pov is of Kathryn actually during the date and sending Luke naughty pics and video of her date.

I remember seeing a porn scene like this (like a hotwife scenario) and think Kathryn fits the bill here.
Yeah, I have been thinking about something like that for a while. Helping Kath get ready for a date would be so erotic.
I hope we eventually get the option for her to have a full time boyfriend.
 
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