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Sorry. I did see your first question before, but didnt respond directly because i have answered this before.

Impregnation wasnt originally planned, but, it was voted on on patreon.
Yes it doesnt really work out in the 30 days.
However. A follow up has always been planned for this game, kind of a epilog, that will delve into the outcome of thirty days, including any babies you made.

And for things included and not included in female route, i keep sending answeres in pm's, but i will go a head and post it in this thread with a spoiler tag, because it does have some day 6 spoilers.
Thx for the info. I would suggest to make a FAQ and ask the mods to add it to the first post. That info you could also attach to other places.

I obviously can't see answers you have given to others via PM :D


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My 2 Cents regarding the NTR discussion:

I think clear communication between the characters makes them more likeable for me and at the same time gives a player choice. I played V0.48 with the Sancho Mod and together there were clear choices and options to choose the relationship with alex. A major plus point for me!

I just finished playing Cosy Cafe V0.6 and the most awesome thing for me was the MC who straight up said what he wanted. The game barely has any choices but the dude still straight up says what he wants. And the story is awesome because there is 0 relationship drama.

Giving players the choice of what the expectation of the MC is makes the most satisfying stories imo. If a player gets the option to early state that their intention is to make a harem and it creates no drama it can be completely awesome.

Forcing me into actions that feel like cheating is way worse for me personally. I will do it because I am playing a Video Game and I want dem Titties. But I'd be more happy to get a choice in what my MC says and then what they do.
This way I can create drama if I want to and I am glad if I get some actual NTR of someone having sex with my waifu without my virtual consent.

If I want to avoid all that I just have an adult talk with any Person I am in a relationship with and tell them my expectations.
That way, when I said to the girl no intimacy with anyone else at all ever, then I can validly categorize a woman touching the breast of another woman as cheating. Not because my own weird internal sensibilities but because my MC straight up said so earlier in the story. (This can be done without foreshadowing by not giving this exact example or this exact category.)

And if I am fine with a completely open relationship because I respect the women as a individual in the role of the MC then I have no reason as a player to cry about my hurt feelings when one of the woman sends me a video of her in a gangbang with 10 other guys covered in jizz.

Because I, as the player, did choose to have this kind of virtual relationship with the girl within the story.
 
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0tt0von

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Yes, that scene is not in female route. Because in that case, i can see it as border line ntr.

I may add them in but ive been a little catious with it on the female route. So i guess, whats the general opinion on that.
On a female, lesbian route, is any form of sexual content with another female considered ntr?

And as an alternate question to that, not saying this will get added, just curious.

If you playing female as bi, if alex is lesbian, is her having any sexual contact with a male considered ntr?
(Again, not thinking about adding it, but lets say in a situation where you want to play a fmc as bi, but your li is lesbian, is asking, or forcing, her to do something sexual with a male considered ntr?)

Or is ntr still just "they can only ever have any sexual interest or contact with me because i am god."
IDGAF about NTR one way or the other, I have one rule "there shall be no penis in my pornography" follow that rule with the vagatarian route and we cool. Phallic shaped shaped toys and objects is fine.
 
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DA22

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And i know, for most people, when it comes to ntr. They dont care, especially if its avoidable.
Just write the story I want to right?

As a dev, i have to be cautious, especially one who needs sales of the game to pay my bills.

Most people may not care, but the few who do care, are vocal as fuck and will review bomb me where i sell my game, directly effecting my ability to pay my bills, and if i have to go back to working another job, it will effect my ability to make the game.

Negative reviews hurt, especially ones that are completely uncalled for.
I am still fighting with steam to have one review removed because the review claimed he played the entire game, however at the time of his review, steams own numbers show the game took 2 and a half hours for one playthrough (average), and his review was only after 30 minutes.
And a lot of what was complained about was things things about the story that were explained if you let go of control.
Not to mentioned, its against steams own rules to give spoilers and attack a developer in a review, which he did.
And the one valid point he did have, was actually intentionaly left unexplained because its a plot point, which starts coming up in day 5 (on male route) and thats to why you havent seen the girls in years, and thats because of jackie (on male route, female will have an alternate story for it).

So yes. Making avoidable ntr is one thing, but when anti ntr nazis review bomb the game because of a boob touch, that is an issue.
If it is about that. As a real NTR genre disliker( I just do not like those stories and tropes of that genre) and having tried many times my opinion is avoidable NTR just does not exist in the end. You can make a certain scene avoidable or skippable, but you can not change the setup of your game. If a game is build up around having a sexual antagonist as focus that has to be able to succeed or 50% or more of game focuses on others as MC having sex just avoiding a few scenes does not work, since those other people just will not find (enough) in your game what they are looking for whatever their definition of NTR is. Only thing you can do is be open about what your game focuses on and intends to be. Only extra trouble with NTR asshole/bitches scenes is it might make LI's too unlikable as well, but that is another problem. :p

You cannot make everyone happy and as a dev should not even try, being to inclusive and having to many kinks rather waters down games as improve them for most people and that goes not only for NTR. I will overlook more if characters do have depth and are more grey and there is a real good story I overlook a lot of things that may not be my cup of tea, but if 90% of the kinks or sexual content are boring to me in a game I rarely tend to keep playing them. :p
 
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Joshy92

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I honestly wouldn't even care if the male route didn't have much sex scenes

I play this game for the great story & characters
Sex scenes are just a bonus to me

Although I do hope I can make the first time with Alex sweet & romantic
I want her first time to be special & meaningful
I love all the girls but I think everyone knows by now that she's my favourite.

Plus I love that I can play as an uncle there aren't that many good uncle & niece games out there imo
 

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If it is about that. As a real NTR genre disliker( I just do not like those stories and tropes of that genre) and having tried many times my opinion is avoidable NTR just does not exist in the end. You can make a certain scene avoidable or skippable, but you can not change the setup of your game. If a game is build up around having a sexual antagonist as focus that has to be able to succeed or 50% or more of game focuses on others as MC having sex just avoiding a few scenes does not work, since those other people just will not find (enough) in your game what they are looking for whatever their definition of NTR is. Only thing you can do is be open about what your game focuses on and intends to be. Only extra trouble with NTR asshole/bitches scenes is it might make LI's too unlikable as well, but that is another problem. :p

You cannot make everyone happy and as a dev should not even try, being to inclusive and having to many kinks rather waters down games as improve them for most people. I will overlook more if characters do have depth and are more grey and there is a real good story I overlook a lot of things that may not be my cup of tea, but if 90% of the kinks or sexual content are boring to me in a game I rarely tend to keep playing them. :p
The current issue, that is raising this.
Is a scene where Alex pokes Ava's boob, that's what caused a review bomb on itch.
Not fondling, not groping, not even in a sexual way at all, but perfectly fits Alex's curious, inquisitive, naive, and uncertain nature.
am I ever planning on Kayla or Alex sleeping with some one else, no.
Not even for the side characters, is it possible the side characters are, yes they have lives outside of you, but you won't know about it or see it.
Alex asking questions and being curious about things is very much her... is it an issue with her asking someone besides the MC?.

Not adding this, but lets say I added a scene where Ava actually does show alex how to masturbate, not ava doing it to alex, but ava doing it to herself in front of alex, is that ntr?
Seems like to avoid any kind of ntr complaints at all, is to not have the LI talk to anyone else besides the mc, at least not about anything sexual or intimate.
 

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I honestly wouldn't even care if the male route didn't have much sex scenes

I play this game for the great story & characters
Sex scenes are just a bonus to me

Although I do hope I can make the first time with Alex sweet & romantic
I want her first time to be special & meaningful
I love all the girls but I think everyone knows by now that she's my favourite.

Plus I love that I can play as an uncle there aren't that many good uncle & niece games out there imo
yes it will be sweet & romantic, if you continue down the romance path, but you will be able to get it quicker on the corruption path, but won't really be all that sweet or romantic.
 
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BenHatira

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Not adding this, but lets say I added a scene where Ava actually does show alex how to masturbate, not ava doing it to alex, but ava doing it to herself in front of alex, is that ntr?
I'am part of the anti-NTR crowd, but even for me it's just dumb that someone could see a hint of it in such a scene, same with the Boob poke. :rolleyes:

People are too sensitive nowadays ...
 

DA22

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The current issue, that is raising this.
Is a scene where Alex pokes Ava's boob, that's what caused a review bomb on itch.
Not fondling, not groping, not even in a sexual way at all, but perfectly fits Alex's curious, inquisitive, naive, and uncertain nature.
am I ever planning on Kayla or Alex sleeping with some one else, no.
Not even for the side characters, is it possible the side characters are, yes they have lives outside of you, but you won't know about it or see it.
Alex asking questions and being curious about things is very much her... is it an issue with her asking someone besides the MC?.

Not adding this, but lets say I added a scene where Ava actually does show alex how to masturbate, not ava doing it to alex, but ava doing it to herself in front of alex, is that ntr?
Seems like to avoid any kind of ntr complaints at all, is to not have the LI talk to anyone else besides the mc, at least not about anything sexual or intimate.
To me that would not be NTR, but I am just one person. Hell to me even carpet munching would not be per se NTR in such a context, even if I find lesbian scenes mostly boring in male MC games. As long as they are not dating MC or strongly suggesting are only into him/her, then it starts to make less sense they would ask someone else. :p Some might have problems with that masturbation scene indeed if not MC, I would not per se. Thing is there is no save route, what one person likes is boring or a turn off to someone else. Also there is a difference if you intend to tell a more romantic tale where LI's and mc are tightly connected or a bit more of an everyone fucks everyone (nukige in japanese genres).

In first instance it might make some more sense a masturbation scene would be with MC especially a female one if has to be shown. With a male MC it might make some more sense to go for a female friend of same age if intimacy and trust with MC is not enough (Might be good idea to somehow show that reason though), just needs some careful navigating and kept a bit asexual funnily enough and will not be liked by everyone. :p Question is why do you need it as a writer to be with the female friend, whether the scene has to be shown if is not with MC instead of referenced only and what is the goal of that in wider context of game and maybe foreshadow that in case of a more wingman scenario for example. Curiosity can also be shown in text, it does not per se needs a scene even if it can be completely fair to show it and/or made skippable based upon your wants or needs as a writer. :p

Edit: Some times it feels like devs do like to show a bit too much of the sexcapades of others in games that the Mc and as such also player does not need to be aware off. Like I said a long time ago in another thread, I never had a girl that I would date next day send me a stream off her getting gang banged the day before either: :p
 
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I'am part of the anti-NTR crowd, but even for me it's just dumb that someone could see a hint of it in such a scene, same with the Boob poke. :rolleyes:

People are too sensitive nowadays ...
similar crowd here. I am good if the MC/POV steals the girl not the girl being stolen for good from the MC. It's about fulfilling fantasies in these type of games mostly and losing a lover never really a thing I want.
 

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is it ntr if it's just 2 members of a polycule/harem having fun with each other even without the MC present...and no conversation about not having fun without them?
 

Hellster

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As always, another game thread of NTR debate :FacePalm:
Perhaps people could familiarise themselves with the various types, then we could end this coming up all the time.
 
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is it ntr if it's just 2 members of a polycule/harem having fun with each other even without the MC present...and no conversation about not having fun without them?
Yup the whole neotare thing is also if a LI is having sexual contact with someone else without the MC knowing.
Some may argue it's more compareable to the "cheating" tag, but this would mean (as i see it) that the MC is confronted with the situation later on.
But hell it's so complicated what counts as NTR or not, there has to be someone who wrote whole essay's about it - i'm sure of it.
 
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The current issue, that is raising this.
Is a scene where Alex pokes Ava's boob, that's what caused a review bomb on itch.
Not fondling, not groping, not even in a sexual way at all, but perfectly fits Alex's curious, inquisitive, naive, and uncertain nature.
am I ever planning on Kayla or Alex sleeping with some one else, no.
Not even for the side characters, is it possible the side characters are, yes they have lives outside of you, but you won't know about it or see it.
Alex asking questions and being curious about things is very much her... is it an issue with her asking someone besides the MC?.

Not adding this, but lets say I added a scene where Ava actually does show alex how to masturbate, not ava doing it to alex, but ava doing it to herself in front of alex, is that ntr?
Seems like to avoid any kind of ntr complaints at all, is to not have the LI talk to anyone else besides the mc, at least not about anything sexual or intimate.
yeah this game is shit even from forum info...just glad i avoided it completly...
 
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BenHatira

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As always, another game thread of NTR debate :FacePalm:
Perhaps people could familiarise themselves with the various types, then we could end this coming up all the time.
The thing is - it makes sense in this thread, because the DEV is clearly getting fucked over by the definition of it on itch and steam ...
 

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Thx for the info. I would suggest to make a FAQ and ask the mods to add it to the first post. That info you could also attach to other places.

I obviously can't see answers you have given to others via PM :D


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My 2 Cents regarding the NTR discussion:

I think clear communication between the characters makes them more likeable for me and at the same time gives a player choice. I played V0.48 with the Sancho Mod and together there were clear choices and options to choose the relationship with alex. A major plus point for me!

I just finished playing Cosy Cafe V0.6 and the most awesome thing for me was the MC who straight up said what he wanted. The game barely has any choices but the dude still straight up says what he wants. And the story is awesome because there is 0 relationship drama.

Giving players the choice of what the expectation of the MC is makes the most satisfying stories imo. If a player gets the option to early state that their intention is to make a harem and it creates no drama it can be completely awesome.

Forcing me into actions that feel like cheating is way worse for me personally. I will do it because I am playing a Video Game and I want dem Titties. But I'd be more happy to get a choice in what my MC says and then what they do.
This way I can create drama if I want to and I am glad if I get some actual NTR of someone having sex with my waifu without my virtual consent.

If I want to avoid all that I just have an adult talk with any Person I am in a relationship with and tell them my expectations.
That way, when I said to the girl no intimacy with anyone else at all ever, then I can validly categorize a woman touching the breast of another woman as cheating. Not because my own weird internal sensibilities but because my MC straight up said so earlier in the story. (This can be done without foreshadowing by not giving this exact example or this exact category.)

And if I am fine with a completely open relationship because I respect the women as a individual in the role of the MC then I have no reason as a player to cry about my hurt feelings when one of the woman sends me a video of her in a gangbang with 10 other guys covered in jizz.

Because I, as the player, did choose to have this kind of virtual relationship with the girl within the story.
Yeah, the spoken understanding is something that is part of all this, While this was delayed on female, on male route when you finish the conversation with Alex about her interest in you, it has several outcomes, either you wanting to be only with her, or you being with both her and nicole (it will come up later about you being with others as well.), or you staying with Nicole.

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And cheating... as some one who has gone through some pretty fucked up shit, I don't take it lightly, as it bothers me severely, which is why when I wrote Ava's back story, I did everything I could to make that scene as accurate and painful as possible, because, yes, it does fucking hurt. and that's why I wrote the MC to be in an open relationship, while I could of just made the MC single, I wanted the dynamic of the MC having some one waiting for them at home and she also does serve a purpose for several other plot points.

And when it comes to the MC's back story, and that one incident, It again was for plot and to add tension between you and the family, but again, i don't take it lightly, and does have some major things in the plot that revolve around it, things that aren't good, because well, its never okay to do that to some one.
 

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Yeah, the spoken understanding is something that is part of all this, While this was delayed on female, on male route when you finish the conversation with Alex about her interest in you, it has several outcomes, either you wanting to be only with her, or you being with both her and nicole (it will come up later about you being with others as well.), or you staying with Nicole.

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And cheating... as some one who has gone through some pretty fucked up shit, I don't take it lightly, as it bothers me severely, which is why when I wrote Ava's back story, I did everything I could to make that scene as accurate and painful as possible, because, yes, it does fucking hurt. and that's why I wrote the MC to be in an open relationship, while I could of just made the MC single, I wanted the dynamic of the MC having some one waiting for them at home and she also does serve a purpose for several other plot points.

And when it comes to the MC's back story, and that one incident, It again was for plot and to add tension between you and the family, but again, i don't take it lightly, and does have some major things in the plot that revolve around it, things that aren't good, because well, its never okay to do that to some one.
now start cry about that it will fit a plot, it is only little bit of story,or it is more realistic...yeah we heared this before and did not helped then and will not now...
 
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