Sadly, the meme of devs suffering all manner of health issues is all too real. I myself disappeared from my own Discord server for 8 months during a long covid / mental health breakdown. People were pissed and I totally get that. The flip side is when you're just unable to bring yourself to face the computer/social media, it can just be an impossible task. Note that I'm talking about me now, and not trying to make any excuses for anybody else. I can only speak for myself and my own experiences.