Yeah, I have been in the sharing/swinging lifestyle for the last 20 years. I was married for 10 years prior to that and the lack of sex led me to be even wilder than I was as a teen, once my marriage ended. I never went for the cuck life but I do respect those that choose that. I am a contradiction, I am both a generous lover(always make sure they cum first or rarely, when we get the timing right, simultaneously) and a selfish one. I will do anything to make my woman/women happy except just sit there and watch them fuck another dude or do a devil's triangle. Will watch her with another woman, without me directly involved, so maybe a tiny bit of cuckold there. Mostly I am down for partner swapping or FFM threesomes. I have been the bull in a cuck arrangement and I have had some women I was with that just wanted to watch me with other women, then later we would fuck like rabbits. I have one other kink that is really tough to find a willing partner, watersports.
Have seen a little bit of a lot of things in the lifestyle. As I said about Debbie, in this game, had a Debbie before, she tried to claim me away from my partner at the time. Now, unlike in the game, I did not hook up with her behind my partner's back. She was someone we met at a party, took home and she got the "feels". One of the downsides, running into people who try to get into the lifestyle without understanding the "rules".