to me, that's where choices should matter. im the complete opposite, i like trans and trap characters, but only when they are feminine and are "pure bottom". the most i can accept is giving them a handy. anything beyond that(forced) and im out. i have no issue if the game gives me a choice, but i think those choices need to be tiered, between no interaction besides conversation, interactions but they are only sub/bottom, interactions where there's a "give and take" and then interactions where you are the sub/bottom.
so long the choice is there, im ok with it.
and to me, having to replay a porn game to see 1-4 diferent scenes is a massive waste of time. having to follow a walkthrough to "perfect run" or not get fucked over is also not something i consider gameplay worthy.