We've been through this disagreement too many times for to even register, but in a few more days, you get to read a script while I get to look at renders
I'm not saying that everyone's relationships have equal intensity. But the same is true on your side of the argument. Everyone has different values, and most of that is related to the amount of care they were or weren't shown growing up, abuse they suffered or were rescued from - there are no standard ways to feel, no right or wrong way. I know some people who wouldn't lift their foot off their dad's neck to stop him from drowning. Another friend of mine is wondering why he doesn't feel anything from his dad's assisted dying. Saying it has to be one way to match one experience is an opinion - evryone will feel different things when confronted with the same situation.
Besides, I'm surprised this is the hill you want to make your stand on - especially seeing you can't stand the sight of Helen, there's no way any interaction with her will feel natural for you
