The secret is to just not be cringe about something silly. Bitching or complaining in a post might be annoying if the topic itself is annoying but it is no where near the annoyance of people sending me paragraphs and long ass rants about something completely trivial.
For instance, the recent Mabel scene. There were quite a few people complaining about the handcuffs being forced and that's fair enough, I knew that scene only had a footjob planned for it so I really didn't feel the need to add an option especially considering the amount of work it adds since that scene is a big part of some of Mabel's story. (Obviously if it was actually a femdom scene with whips and shit it would have been optional) But I still can understand it ruffling some feathers, especially given the timing of it.
But if someone were to write up a fucking essay on it you could almost guarantee I'd start working cuffs into other scenes.
It's just how it is.
And about unavoidable creampies with Jamie... yeah it might just be a good idea to close your eyes near the end of any Jamie scene, others should be safe tho.