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As long as your wife isn't getting dick from someone else without your knowledge does it really matter? Your wife isn't committing adultery.

Like how I noticed a particular concern from hubby when suggesting the "Free Pass" about Yoon wanting to sleep with other men. Like Liam from AWAM, Daniel seems completely unconcerned with his wife fooling around with other women. Liam in AWAM even suggests it in recent updates, threesome style.
Because Liam and Daniel are idiots. I would always fear that my partner would get the idea that a woman can meet her needs, sexually, emotionally and spiritually, much better than I can. In my opinion, the thought is not that far away.
In my opinion, the question of fraud among the "lesbian players" always arises when the woman does not "take" her husband / partner with her right from the start. If he ever finds out casually. I want to see the man who doesn't feel hurt then.
 

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Because Liam and Daniel are idiots. I would always fear that my partner would get the idea that a woman can meet her needs, sexually, emotionally and spiritually, much better than I can. In my opinion, the thought is not that far away.
In my opinion, the question of fraud among the "lesbian players" always arises when the woman does not "take" her husband / partner with her right from the start. If he ever finds out casually. I want to see the man who doesn't feel hurt then.
Assuming you are living in one of the European countries. You may even forget what is like to be restricted. What is it like to be not yourself? Here, there is still arranged marriage in some families. One marriage after another is not so popular, too. Especially on the female side, they try their best to maintain the marriage once they have given their virginity. So, there are always needs that have to be forbidden for so many reasons. Wishing to be more like in Europe one day.
 

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I hope the Yoon sex scene isn't direct, I hope there is something like; She resists at first and he touches her and she loves it and wants to stop him, but she can't because she likes it and in the end she gives up
Of course, my friend, there will be a lot to go on. I hope I and Stella Ko can display an interesting build-up with this update.
 
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I guess there will be a scene. At that time, I thought I won't have enough time to render that before the deadline. But I think it will be possible. Not too much, but there's gonna be a small scene.
I'm happy of this! Hoping that in the future there will be a proper cuckold path involving the Hills Family, and why not, also other couples of the game!
 
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Because Liam and Daniel are idiots. I would always fear that my partner would get the idea that a woman can meet her needs, sexually, emotionally and spiritually, much better than I can. In my opinion, the thought is not that far away.
In my opinion, the question of fraud among the "lesbian players" always arises when the woman does not "take" her husband / partner with her right from the start. If he ever finds out casually. I want to see the man who doesn't feel hurt then.
I do have one piece of advice. Polyamory is probably not for you. My dad once shared his own perspective when talking about my polyamorous nature. He said that the very thought of another man touching his wife/my mother made him sick to his stomach.

People have different perspectives. Because they don't have that fear doesn't make them idiots, IMHO. Many people can't understand my perspective. Likewise, I can't understand feeling the need to control someone else's social and sexual life (to me, treating them like a possession) due to fear. When I was growing up, it was still the norm in most of the US to cut off ties with any single friends of the opposite gender after marriage.

"If you love someone, set them free..."
 

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I do have one piece of advice. Polyamory is probably not for you. My dad once shared his own perspective when talking about my polyamorous nature. He said that the very thought of another man touching his wife/my mother made him sick to his stomach.

People have different perspectives. Because they don't have that fear doesn't make them idiots, IMHO. Many people can't understand my perspective. Likewise, I can't understand feeling the need to control someone else's social and sexual life (to me, treating them like a possession) due to fear. When I was growing up, it was still the norm in most of the US to cut off ties with any single friends of the opposite gender after marriage.

"If you love someone, set them free..."
Oh man! If you have read my post correctly, you should be aware that I have nothing against a threesome relationship. But such a thing is a process in a relationship and not a today-to-tomorrow event. If your wife or husband tells you "You, I've been fucking someone else for a while, you want to join in" is not the beginning of a happy polyamorphic relationship. And the belief that just because it's a lesbian relationship doesn't pose a threat to a marriage is stupid, ignorant at best. We play porn games here, in which anything is allowed, including impossible developments. But if someone here claims that secret lesbian sex would not be adultery and that would not be so bad, they have no idea of the reality.
 

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And your lover's happiness is yours, too. ;)
Quite so!

There is a word coined the 1980s within the San Francisco poly communie, Kerista. The word compersion is loosely defined as the opposite of jealousy. Instead of feeling upset or threatened when your partner romantically or sexually interacts with another person, you feel a sense of happiness for them.

One founder of modern polyamory (Oberon Zell Ravenheart) defined it as "When the happiness of another is essential to your own." His late wife, Morninglory, was the one who coined the word "polyamorous" back in 1989. I first met them in 1981 or 1982.

Another source, a relationship coach specializing in consensual non-monogamy puts it this way: "It's joy that has nothing to do with your joy. It's sympathetic joy or unselfish joy, where you are joyful for the other person for things that have nothing to do with you. You're just happy for them because they're in a good place, because they are experiencing joy, and you can sort of look at it from the outside and feel the same experience." (yes, I found that quote instead of remembering it)

As I understand it, the concept of sympathetic joy is actually one of the four core pillars of Buddhism (Mudita path).

One podcaster I know likes the term "Frubble," but it hasn't taken off. She wanted something to express the giddy feeling shared with seeing a happy partner. Frubble may be a term to use among friends, but I can't see one writing an academic paper using the term.
 
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Oh man! If you have read my post correctly, you should be aware that I have nothing against a threesome relationship. But such a thing is a process in a relationship and not a today-to-tomorrow event. If your wife or husband tells you "You, I've been fucking someone else for a while, you want to join in" is not the beginning of a happy polyamorphic relationship. And the belief that just because it's a lesbian relationship doesn't pose a threat to a marriage is stupid, ignorant at best. We play porn games here, in which anything is allowed, including impossible developments. But if someone here claims that secret lesbian sex would not be adultery and that would not be so bad, they have no idea of the reality.
I'll grant you that. I was responding more to your first paragraph rather than the second. Yes, better to have "Honey, I've been noticing feelings whenever I'm around Carol. What do you think?" Rather than "I guess I should finally tell you that Carol and I have been fooling around for a month now..."

I've heard that there are three principle rules for successful polyamory.
  1. Communication
  2. Communication
  3. Communication
 

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I do have one piece of advice. Polyamory is probably not for you. My dad once shared his own perspective when talking about my polyamorous nature. He said that the very thought of another man touching his wife/my mother made him sick to his stomach.

People have different perspectives. Because they don't have that fear doesn't make them idiots, IMHO. Many people can't understand my perspective. Likewise, I can't understand feeling the need to control someone else's social and sexual life (to me, treating them like a possession) due to fear. When I was growing up, it was still the norm in most of the US to cut off ties with any single friends of the opposite gender after marriage.

"If you love someone, set them free..."
Is the concept that "love and sex are sacred" such a foreign concept to you? The majority of people don't want their partner banging every person on the block because sex is supposed to be a special bond shared between just the two of them. I'm not surprised though with how sexually liberal society has become that people can't even comprehend the concept of not wanting other dudes to plow your wife.

Edit: Although this may be obvious, this doesn't apply to porn games of course because they are fiction and fantasy. Like this game specifically, the idea of playing an innocent wife that slowly becomes tempted/corrupted into cheating is a turn on, but IRL it would be tragic and depressing for the husband.
 

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Is the concept that "love and sex are sacred" such a foreign concept to you? The majority of people don't want their partner banging every person on the block because sex is supposed to be a special bond shared between just the two of them. I'm not surprised though with how sexually liberal society has become that people can't even comprehend the concept of not wanting other dudes to plow your wife.
"Plow your wife?" Yeah, that doesn't sound loving. I was talking about being supportive of your wife/partner exploring and finding greater joy in diversity and loving more than one.

Sex is very sacred in many ways. For me, it is a spiritual experience, "touching the Goddess," as it were. In fact, in my youth, I attended many rites where sacred sex was part of the ritual. In a fair number of those, I was the one chosen to be the one standing for the God in the Great Rite, while a priestess would stand for the Goddess. Yes, sexual congress is a sacred act to me. It is a celebration of life and love, a way to connect on a very deep level.

"All Acts of Love and Pleasure are My Rituals."--Charge of the Goddess, Doreen Valiente

I've also shared deep intimate love with more than one woman, each of whom know about the other as well as being a friend to that other. Believe me, it is possible for some of us to love more than one.

Personally, I see the history of monogamous marriage as steeped in misogyny, largely about male power and possession, whether it be ownership of the woman or as part of the common historical method of a father transferring a daughter to another man as part of a political/economic alliance. Even very recently, we have had the double standard (which definitely shows up here) where monogamy is required of the wife (and enforced with grave consequences still in some parts of the world), but tolerated in the husband. Women were a central force in the rise of polyamory.
 

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Is the concept that "love and sex are sacred" such a foreign concept to you? The majority of people don't want their partner banging every person on the block because sex is supposed to be a special bond shared between just the two of them. I'm not surprised though with how sexually liberal society has become that people can't even comprehend the concept of not wanting other dudes to plow your wife.
You are completely wrong. That only corresponds to the worldview of the people to whom you belong. But there are plenty of others.

It is by no means the majority of the people who think so. Why do you think there are swinger clubs in most parts of the world? Why is there, spilled over from the Far East, the NTR fetish? In many countries of the world erotic stories with cheating/sharing conent are very popular. And there is much more. None of this would exist if there was no demand for it. The hatred of NTR content, as it is so widespread in the english-speaking area, is almost unknown in its form in Germany and the Far East, for example. Which in no way means that they are all cheaters.

What I actually mean by that: there are a lot of people who don't live monugamously. And there are many more who at least have fantasies that break the chains of monogamy. To get to the point: your view of the world, which by the way, i respect, by no means corresponds to the generality, not even to the large majority.
 
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Is the concept that "love and sex are sacred" such a foreign concept to you? The majority of people don't want their partner banging every person on the block because sex is supposed to be a special bond shared between just the two of them. I'm not surprised though with how sexually liberal society has become that people can't even comprehend the concept of not wanting other dudes to plow your wife.

Edit: Although this may be obvious, this doesn't apply to porn games of course because they are fiction and fantasy. Like this game specifically, the idea of playing an innocent wife that slowly becomes tempted/corrupted into cheating is a turn on, but IRL it would be tragic and depressing for the husband.
I think you're totally right.
 
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