About the porn shot decision: I had few time in the last days, so I might be late to the party with two cents about that event, but here it is.
For reference, In my playthrough I play (renamed) Edwin as a nice guy (low toughness), but with some edges (he has some toughness when needed) of his own. I totally get why the option to refuse the porn shot exists and it is great it is there, but I chose to do it for several reasons.
One is roleplaying the "Social Chameleon" trait in that Edwin tries to balance how far he pushes back against the owners and how far he goes to fit in. Since his face will be obfuscated and he is not sure how rough Ian would handle Rosi, he goes through with it. It is a nice Background touch that Hana and August seem to be quite amused how this event plays out.
Another reason for this Edwin to go through with the shot is gaining "brownie points" with Kath, Chuck and August, to have some wriggle room to refuse for really tough/sadist stuff that might come later.
A question for TD about the cumplay at the end of the shot: What is the relevance of this for Edwin? Can you tell us a bit what will happen if he does it or does not? Does he gain points with Rosi and Hana if he does or not? It was inserted for a reason, we need to know the strategic options
in gameplay.