As far as I know Maria and Lily have femdom. Maria can be avoided (or this is what I understand). About Lily, I have no idea, but being an important character, I'm not sure about that point.
What LIs have maledom? I haven't read that anywhere (apart from Maria, who seems to have both fetishes, or you can choose between them, I'm not sure)
Actually I'm interested in knowing the name of the LIs that have femdom and/or maledom to avoid them. I have the name of two that have femdom, and one of them has maledom too. But I don't know the name of more LIs that have maledom.