It's hard for me to complain about the dev as everyone has a different story. For me, it was my wife who "asked" me to stop. She was not comfortable with me doing it anymore so I had to choose if I wanted to continue to fight the fight or just do what I thought was best but at least I explained it to everyone. Sure, some people gave me some grief, but most people understood. At the very least, the dev should drop some kind of explanation. Even if they don't want to share all the details, just a "hey... Sorry to disappoint, but I'm out" would be sufficient.