The game makes it kinda vague with how to recruit into your harem, I have both Barbara and Gwen at 5/5 and 4/5 but cant seem to initiate the conversation
Did you do the dates for them? This is in the code:
for Barbara
"I think it's time now for you to join my harem teach..." if lustba >= 4 and haremba == False and barbaraharem == False and girlsinharem <= 5 and barbaradatedone:
meaning, lust >= 4, not in the harem, 5 or less other girls in the harem, and date done
for Gwen
"I think the time is ripe for you to join my harem." if lustgw >= 4 and haremgw == False and gwenharem == False and girlsinharem <= 5 and gwendatedone:
meaning, lust >= 4, not in the harem, 5 or less other girls in the harem, and date done
so no further requirements like for some other girls.