The point is that we are the player so we do know we are a second choice for both of them, and when the MC is not in a relationship with them, the only one who actually shows any interest (not even sexual) in the MC is Josy.
And you sort of also can notice when you are dating them, it most likely also has to do with her personal situation, but a petty 19 year old...
Honestly, I don't generally let factors from other paths influence how I view the one I'm on. In my opinion, they should be seen as "alternate universes", so really the fact that Maya doesn't pursue you if you don't date them doesn't necessarily have much bearing in the case where you do. Again, remember that Josy had a much longer time with you alone for those type of feelings to build, so Maya is essentially starting from behind in terms of developing an emotional bond even on the throuple path.
Then again, I'm sure my perspective is coming from a very different place in life since I'm about two decades older from the sound of it.
yes but college is a time for sowing your oats before finding a relationship later on. the only thing wrong here is that he commits to a relationship with 1 LI or the throuple way too soon. that shouldn't happen till year 3 of his college life. or in Dawe's case, year 15..cause...35 year old cuck loser Dawe...
Honestly, while this might be good advice for some guys, there's plenty of others that don't really feel the need to sow the wild oats and would be happier looking for romantic relationships earlier on. In the case of Maya and Josy, by the time you commit to a relationship with them you've already been "together" for 2-3 months, which really isn't that long of a time to date before discussing becoming exclusive. After all, you're not marrying them, just deciding that the bond you feel with them is important enough that it's worth dedicating your full attention to in order to see if it might be a worthwhile future.